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new student
hey im a new student and i just moved from CA to ND its horrible i got you guys sn from a friend any way i am a new student and im really upset because nobody knows me and they all have there own little cliks and nobody wqants me in theirs
PLEASE HELP
signed,
no friends
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I know how it's hard to be in a new school and such.. the only reason people aren't letting you in their cliks yet is because they probably don't know you well enough yet. And instead of just being friends with one clik, try being friendly with them all. The more, the merrier =) just start talking to anyone and slowly whenever they get to know you more, you'll become friends with a bunch of people. Trust me ; just give it some time. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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Instead of looking for a new clique to join, you should try being friendly towards everyone. It's difficult re-locating to an unfamiliar location, and making new friends is even harder than that. People will start warming up to you once they realize that you're a nice person. Join some clubs or sports at your school. That gets you acquainted with people who have similar intrests to your own. Having something to do with people your own age in your spare time is a good thing too. You might find some new friends in a club or sport that you might not have met otherwise. Another quick bit of advice before I wrap it up... don't be afraid to talk to people. Quiet people can sometimes be mistaken for arrogant people, and that's not the impression you want people to get. Be a little more talkative, but don't reveal every detail of your personal business... small talk will suffice. (music, movies, tv, dances... etc)
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ok, just do this
1.act friendly to people
2.ask people if you can sit by them at lunch
3.be nice to EVERYONE
4.dont talk about people
5.DONT start rumors
6.be polite
7.be outgoing
8.give people a big smile in the halls
9.dont judge anyone
10.be YOURSELF
hope that helped and if you need anything else just ask!
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Maybe you could try joining some kind of school club or something. Also joining a sport is a great way to get friends and get to know more people (That is how I got alot of my friends when I was a freshman in highschool). Once you get to know more people and make more friends those cliks you were talking about will be more open to you. It is mostly about talking to others., because the more you talk to people the more they get to know you better and there you have it, a friend. Also show who you are through your actions, because actions do indeed speak louder than words. Be a nice person to everyone and be open to everyone. That is really all there is too it.
Hope I helped and you have a better time at school.
-Ryan
Need anything else just drop something in my inbox. Or if you need someone to talk to, IM me at (AIM) Alpha0mega345. Good luck at school!
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Well start loaning like pencils and stuff to them when they need them. See what there interested in and bring up a conversation. Start tlkn and they will listen. Theres always a place for everyone. Also join a sport. Haveing a sport to play is a great way to make friends. I know its hard to really get into a whole do skool and enviroment. Just pray and do your best!
Hope I helped! ~Hearts~Brooke~
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This could take some time what you need to do is show them that you are a nice person.If they act mean to you try acting nice to them maybe they might let you in their crew.Or ask them why they don't want you in there's and if there is anything you could do to be a part of them.But if they are the type of people that use others then don't worry new people will come who are willing to be your friend.
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Just talk to people. It works and smile a lot. Dont look completly desparate either.
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