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boyfriend trouble


Question Posted Wednesday August 17 2005, 10:16 am

hi. im 13 years old and ive had a bf for 4 months. he dumped me the other day because his friends dont like me. i really like him and he likes me too. 2 minutes (literally) after he dumped me he had another gf. is he worth going back for?

P.S. ive never met his parents and hes never met mine. thanks for your help.


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XxTxX answered Saturday August 20 2005, 1:30 am:
Soorry to put it like this..But no hes not worth it..If he is gonna say his friends dont like you well first thats an excuse just to break up with you..But even if his friends dont like you i mean if he liked you enough he wouldnt listen to his friends..And he got a new girlfriend which just provess he is soo loww..Im soo sorry..I hope everything is okay..But anyways you'll get an amazin boyfriend who will always care for you and never break your hear..Hope i helped`

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kevin1986 answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 8:33 pm:
No.

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wonderworld13 answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 7:01 pm:
hun no way is this guy worth it. NO way at all! if he dumped you cause his friends didnt like you this guy is such a jerk its not even funny. i cant even explain how rude that is to do that to someon. and then he had a girl friend right after he dumped you that is so discustingly rude if i were you i would not speak to him. cause i bet he just lost one of the best things he could of had. i really hoped this helped!

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orphans answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 5:25 pm:
he's not worth going back for, because if he cared about you that much, then he wouldn't care about what his friends thought about you. you should wait until you find a waaay better boyfriend then he is.

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LiLKimmy769 answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 3:23 pm:
no i don't think he's worth goin back to because if he dumped you, then got another girlfriend immediatly, obviously he's very rude and inconsiderate. how do you know that he wont dump you again like last time? if you really like him though, then go out with him. Like i told others, just follow your heart. ;-)
hope i helped..
<33 Kim

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Dakmor answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 1:37 pm:
O_O Oh damn! That is screwed up! If you've ever read Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince, he's sort of doing what Ron and Hermione did. Sort of. He knew his friends didn't like you, so he tried to make you jealous so that you would like him so much more, and you'd be all over him, and then his friends would see how much you like him, and they'd finally accept you. I mean, really! Two minutes? I know so many people hate this song, but I just gotta quote it: "Insane in the membraaaaaane!" 2 minutes is not natural. Definitely go back to him. Good luck!

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SH0RTiE_x3 answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 1:27 pm:
hey * just forget about him i mean theyre are other guys out there that would love to go out with you and if he really liked you he wouldnt be dating some one else and if that happened it just wasnt ment to be so move on !! thatll make him mad too =) well i hope i helped !!

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dazed_and_confused_alot answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 1:02 pm:
i would say he really doesn't like you that much and his friends should shut the hell up and he sounds like an asshole so find a better guy
striperella

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Avocodo answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 12:52 pm:
hey you have to look at this from his point of view, he dumped you because his friends don't like you. Well maybe he felt to much pressure from his friends and thats why he dumped you. After all you guys are just 13, and sometimes people at your age don't know how to deal with the pressures of being in a relationship. However if he does have another girlfriend so soon, I think you should forget about him. There are plenty of other mature guys out there. and your only 13, you have plenty of time to date, whats the rush? if this guy is so cruel to dump and go out with someone else, i say forget about that loser.

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 12:25 pm:
no he isnt worth it.. he only said eis friends didnt like you just for an excuses . you should move on and 4get about him.. there are a lot better guys out there.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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eternitysofbliss answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 12:17 pm:
sry too tell you this but that was just an excuse to dump you. True his friends may not like you and that is always a pain but if he has another gf in 2 minutes they like her better and so does he. Not worth it. Move on.

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FunnyCide answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 12:17 pm:
Girl,


Forget about him. If he dumped you because his friends didn't like you, he didn't REALLY care. I'm sorry, I know that hurts. Alot. And it's really sad that he's got a girlfriend almost immediately after he broke up with you.. just forget about him. If he really cared he wouldn't've broken up with you because of what his friends think, nor would he have gotten another girlfriend. Even if he broke up with the other girl and got down on his hands and knees, promised to do my algebra homework for the rest of the semester and made a giant apology, I wouldn't take him back. He didn't care enough then, he doesn't care enough now.


Sweetie, find yourself a good friend (who is a guy) and get to know him really well. Once you're really tight with him, if you're attracted to him, let him know. If you're not, keep hanging out with guys. The only way to know if you REALLY like someone is to know what they're REALLY like. Don't accept someone at face value, dig a little deeper.


Good luck!
-FunnyCide

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fallenxfor3ver answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 11:35 am:
Ohmygosh ! He dumped you because of what his friends thought of you? I would have forgotten about him right there. If he truley liked you he wouldn't be worried about what his friends said. And if he got a girlfriend 2 minutes after you guys were going out, oviously he had his eye on her while you guys were dating. He is deffinetly not worth going back for!

- Hope I helped.

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AllThatIveGotx711 answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 11:29 am:
Oh My Gosh! Hunni you "Dizerve" SOOOOOOOO much better than his ass!

He should't care about what his friends think he should care about what his friends think he should care about what he thinks...

But you dizerve some one better who wont use you!

If he has a gf now then he's a Man Whore! haha

He is not worth going back for because by what he did u can tell he didn't really like u... and you can also tell he used you... and u shouldnt have that at all in a rilasionship!


hope i could help...

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Mercy_x_Me answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 11:13 am:
Yeah wow.... he must not have "really liked" you if he has a new gf. He seems a bit of a jerk, and kind of like a player. I cannot say it enough. Boys like him are NOT good for anyone. Even if you can't move on off the bat, you need to keep your distance from him. He is sooo not worth it, unless he breaks up with the other girl and makes a GIANT apology. Even then I don't know if it would be good to go back with him. Good Luck!

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