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shyness, but really like him
There's this guy that I really like, and we're in a couple classes together. The problem is, we never really talked last year. But I'm really shy. How can I get over my shyness and just talk to him, or even say hi? Rate 5's for good answers.
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walk up to him and say hi
it'll scare the crap out of you
but it works.
you'll get that feeling like you're first solo
in choir
or you're first kiss.
ask him stuff like whats his schedule
and if he likes all of his classes.
chances are he wont,
so you can talk about them.
-hope it helps-
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Listen. I'm a shy person, but I can tell you that the only way to get past your fears is to just stand up to them. Listen, just say hi to him, and hopefully, you can get to know him, get his number, AIM, e-mail, address. Hope I helped, good luck getting through to him!
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just start a random conversation with him...just walk up and be like "heyy whats up with you?" and just talk! he should get the vibe that you like him! and if you are too shy to start a conversation with him talk to one of your friends and ask her//him to ask one of the guys friends if he likes you!
hope i helped!
emmii`*
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if your that shy then you should see him in the hall and "accidently bump into him" and then when you do it drop your books! Then say o my gosh i am so sorry! and then you stare in to his eyes. thats how it usually happens in the movies! Or you could do it the plain way and just say hi! Hope i helped!
Allie Cat
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I found this good website that helps you start conversations and that kind of thing if you're shy. Give it a look. :)
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i think you should just go up to him and maybe say "hey nice shirt you got on" or " that hair cut makes u look sexy" or " hey so what did u do this week end?" or "can you help me with this math problem?" somethings like that. just dont be shy and dont be afraid to do it. if you dont do it then you will never know if he likes you. so if i were you i would go for it!!
<3,
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brunettecutie**
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i really think that you should go up to him and just start talking about myabe (if he is still in some of your classes this year) homework or school like your teachers or classmates. it might be hard at first but then you can also get into different kinds of conversations with him about other intrests then after a while you never know what might happen. and if you are really shy you can ask a friend to tell him you need to talk to him, then when he gets to you and ask him a important question then get into a interesting convorsation. well i hope my advice helped :)
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Girl, just take a deep breath and go up and talk to him. He isn't gonna bit you or anything. Just be yourself and stay calm. Talk about anything even if it random. Ask him question to get to know him better. Practice what you want to say to him. Hope this helps!!
-Manda
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First just start to ask him questions (to get you guys talking) even if its a question you know the answer to. Like how to get somewhere or if you had hmwk last night. eventually itll you both will be more comfortable talking to each other and then you can just tALK. I'm sure u kno what to do from there. Hope it helped!
Gaby
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ok, i used to be the SHYEST girl in school but now im the most outgoing person in school so i hope this helps you too.
1.take really deep breaths before talking to someone
2.be friendly to people
3.make a good first impression
4.think of what you are going to say BEFORE you say it
5.try not to studder
6.think of things to talk to him about
i hope that helps!
p.s. tell me how it works out...id like to hear about it!
♥ leah
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There isn't exactly a formula or exact thing to do to get over being shy. You just gotta take a deep breath and go for it. Just introduce yourself and act really interested. See him more as a friend if that helps you feel more comfortable. Being shy is all mental. Just remember that you know this guy and you dont have to feel shy around him. Well, good luck and i hope i helped!!!
4Him, Disciple (plz rate and leave comments!!!)
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So.. you're really shy.Hmm <thinking>...You have to gather all of your confidence, and try to talk to him. It's not that hard to talk to a guy. You have to believe in yourself, and I'm sure you'll get over your shyness. If you have any problem, just ask me, okay? Hope I helped!
-ViTaChaN-
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