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feeling left out and stuff


Question Posted Wednesday August 17 2005, 9:59 pm

i feel like my friends never want to hang out with me unless i call them. they never call me and always hang out but not with me. i feel like i don't have any friends right now and that nobody likes me. i want to tell them that i'm feeling left out and stuff but i'm not sure how to tell them without them getting pissed off or sumthing. idk... so can anyone help?? thnx.

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hockeybob3166 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 3:30 am:
well i think you should just talk to them and stuff and the tell how you feel i mean say it nice and dont tel them how you feel just talk to them really nice and stuff

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willyoucatchme answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 11:28 pm:
Just tell them that you feel left out, and if they are really your friends they will understand when you tell them! Good luck!

Love ~Ash~

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sunnyville answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 10:59 pm:
Ask them why they don't call you and if they don't have a good excuse it's because they're lying to you.Tell them to give you a call.And don't forget to check if they left any messages for you.If they still don't call don't talk to them anymore so they could feel the same way you're feeling.If they have your phone number they should at least call to ask how your doing!

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dasweetness2603 answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 10:34 pm:
Hey..sup?? Well even if your friends might get pissed off @ you if you confront them I would still do it. Confronting them about the situation might actually make them understand how your feeling and what your going through. If you never tell them about your problem than they'll never be able to help you and invite you places if they don't know that it's one of your concerns. If they get mad @ you when you tell them how you feel than their not really true friends. True friends would invite you places without even thinking about it twice..>it would be like a natural instinct to just pick up the phone and dial your #. So def. tell your friends how you feel and hopefully they'll understand and try to invite and call you more often. Don't forget that friendships work both ways and you have to call them as well. Hope everything turns out ok. Xo> Rate me~~

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ViTaChaN answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 10:17 pm:
Oowh, I feel sorry for ya.. You have to tell them about your feelings, I meant, you can't keep your feelings forever! Well, I had that kinda problem too when I was little. I called my bestfriend, and I asked her if she can hang out with me tomorrow, then she said 'No, I can't'. Then, the next day, I met her hanging out with her new bestfriends. I was so mad at her..So, I know how you feel.. If they are your truly truly bestfriends, the won't get pissed off or something..You should, and have to tell them. My guess is maybe they don't want to like bother you or something, maybe that's why they never want to hang out with you. Well, that's my guess, I don't know if it's right or wrong. But anyway, you should talk to them, okay? Hope I helped!

-ViTaChaN-

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Klee0488 answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 10:06 pm:
You should seriously tell you freinds how you feel because if they are true friend they will understand. Or maybe you should find new friends cause if they never wanna call you then its like they are too good for you, and you seriuosly dont need that. But im sure your friends wont get pissed off. I was in the same position as you along time ago and i know how it is and you feel like theres no1 in the world for you and you wanna kill urself but it gets better in the end and you just need to stand up for yourself and take control!

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