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Hey every one I'm Kimber and I'm 17. I like to just hang, go dancing ,and just be with the girls! But anyways im here to help ya so if you need my advice im here for ya maybe in sum way ull help me too!!
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Ok I have this friend he is 18 and is really cool and hot.But he likes my BFFL only because her boobs are huge and she is a slut(weird BFFL huh?) Anyway I am like in love with him but he only thinks of me as a friend but I am beginnig to think he doesnt even like me as that.He told my friend that he wanted her to see his balls.I know thats preverted but he never says anything thing like that to me and that makes me feel unattractive.What can I do to make him notice me without acting like a slut.Ill rate high for any good answer!!
PS he said if I acted more like her he would like me
You know just move on. I mean this guy is prolly an ass hole he prolly doesnt even care about your feelings or anything. I know hes hott and you'll always have that crush but every1 goes thru this. I even did a couple times. Its just sumthing u have to get over and realize its discussing how hes likes girls cause of her boobs and that she acts like a slut. Dont change yourself just for a guy!
A few friday's ago my best friend and I were at skate night and we wanted her 4 boy cousins to come. We called them and we both talked to them and stuff and we were being annoying..
but then we called 10 times straight and my friend told me what to say and I said it.. like I kept asking for her cousin's best friend who was over and we were just being annoying.. and so his best friend told me that her cousin was getting annoyed and we should stop calling. I said "ok" and we stopped calling. Then they came to skate night, but her cousin and his best friend wouldn't talk to us. My friend said sorry when I wasn't there. Her cousin still likes her, cuz he's known her all his life, but he probably thinks I'm an obnoxious rude biatch and won't talk to me cuz he doesn't know me that well. I feel SOOOOOO guilty.. I mean REAAAAALLLLYYY guilty. I don't know what to do. Should I try to tell him I'm sorry? I don't know what he'd do.. What should I do?!
13/f.. cousin and his friend are 15/m
Yea you should at least apologize, and what not, but if he acts like he really doesnt care then hes not worth apologizing to.
I am thirteen and i don't care for guys that much but i have auburn hair, around five foot though alot of people consider me short, skinny (well thats what everyone says) and play alot of sports. Almost like everyone in my grade has either been asked out or has had a boyfriend/girlfriend. I have never been asked out and i am just wondering if i should be concerned about that. I am not interested in having a boyfriend but i just feel.. left out i guess because almost everyone has been asked out but me.
You know wat dont worry about it im 17 and i still havent gotten asked out well i have but i never have been in those serious relationships. You 13 still and sum guys arent looking to have a gf that much like they just want a gf cause they think its cool. Dont worry you and me both will have our chance sumtimes. I feel left out to sumtimes but yet just gives me more time to do wat i want when i want and not have to worry about sum1 holding me back from doing it.
hey im a 15 female and i have brown hair thats pretty long a little below my boobs haha, its thick and when i let it air dry its wavy, but i can wear it either wavy or straight depending on what i want.. i have some layers and face framing but i wanted to try something new for the school year. i dont wanna get highlights or anything i am just looking for a new look so people will see a difference... and nothing too short because i have a oval shaped face and it wouldnt go good with it and i dont think side bangs would either... well thankss
why dont you get a body perm might look cute... or layers that wave out away from ur face that would be cute..or just curl ur hair wiht a curling iron...well theres a few ideas!!
i feel like my friends never want to hang out with me unless i call them. they never call me and always hang out but not with me. i feel like i don't have any friends right now and that nobody likes me. i want to tell them that i'm feeling left out and stuff but i'm not sure how to tell them without them getting pissed off or sumthing. idk... so can anyone help?? thnx.
You should seriously tell you freinds how you feel because if they are true friend they will understand. Or maybe you should find new friends cause if they never wanna call you then its like they are too good for you, and you seriuosly dont need that. But im sure your friends wont get pissed off. I was in the same position as you along time ago and i know how it is and you feel like theres no1 in the world for you and you wanna kill urself but it gets better in the end and you just need to stand up for yourself and take control!
So my sweet 16 is coming up. Any suggestions? I already know for sure im having a party room with a DJ.. its gunna be a dance. But like what should i do.. have a cake? or no cake.. Should the cake be a cake or should i do a big cookie from Ms. Fields (cookie shop) And what about the lighting? And what should i do during the party other then dance?
Alright your party sounds hot so far with the D.J. n shit but with the whole cake thing just have a cake i mean wats a birthday without a cake ya know but if you dont want to infront of every1 just like have your girls or w/e sleep over and do it then you know cause sum people get embarssed around a big group like that if you know wat i mean...Also wiht lighting id do strop lights n all that stuff
ok well the thang is this 1 gurl likes me but i really like this other girl but i dont want the other gurl gettin hurt. wat should i do?
Who-Who
Honestly i think you should just sit the other girl down n tell her the truth she would rather hear the truth then sum made up lie. Just tell her you interested in another girl but u want to be friends and thats all thats to it!
I completely accept that no one else can tell someone whether they are in love or not but does anyone else find it a little silly when people say they are completely in love with someone they have never dated or kissed, or dated for a week or so?
I almost find it offensive. I don't like that word being taken so lightly and thrown around. Does this annoy anyone else here, or am I being too judgmental?
I find it offensive to because alot of people dont really know wat love is or what it truley means and they are using the word "love" in the wrong kind of way. You should never say it unless you truley mean it or not.
Okay. There are three lunch periods at my school, lunch a, lunch b, and lunch c. Well I have two best friends, Kim and Megan. Well Kim has lunch a, Megan has b, and I have c. We all had c last year together. Its a big deal who you sit with because the lunch table you sit at you pretty much stay at. The thing is, there arent any people I know that I can stand enough to sit with everyday. Dont just tell me to go up to people I dont know that well and sit with them. Any suggestions for getting my counseler to let me switch lunches? Any other solutions? Oh and there are about 2000 kids in my school. I was new last year so I dont know anyone I didnt meet last year which wasnt that many people. any help would be great
Just tell them that you have a health problem like diabeties or sumthing my friend did that and he got his lunch moved earlier. Idk if u need a doctors note tho. Its hard to say just say you cant eat that lunch cause of a conflict with a girl and you dont want to start a fight and moving your lunch will prevent no fight haha well i did my best wiht coming up sumthing...sry if its bad
okay heres my problem..one of my best friends is going out with this guy two years older than her... and he has a REALLY bad rep like everyone knows him for having sex and using all these girls... but ive talked to her and him many times and hes changed a lot over the year, and he really likes my friend and he wont let her do anything too bad because he doesnt want her to think hes using her, but were going into highschool and i really am scared for her beacuse she will start to get the bad rep and no one understands there relationship and will think hes just using her.. what should i do and what should she do should she break up with him and wait till later in the year or what?
thanks
You should never break up with sum1 just because of their bad rep. I mean if you seriously love some one you really shouldnt care what others think! You friend needs to just ignore others they are just jealous.
Okay, I know you're going to roll your eyes and say "oh no, not another period question" but please read before you do that.
Well I started my period for the first time in March of this year, like the last week of March. I had it for 6 or 7 days, I think I started the 20th, and I know for a fact I ended Easter day. Anyway, I'm kind of worried because I know your period is random the first few years, but so random that you go without it for almost 5 months?! I've talked to my mom about it, and she said if I still don't have it, then when I go for my physical I can ask my doctor about it, but she's not going to schedule me an appointment about it or anything like that, and the thing is, my physical isn't until October and I honestly don't want to wait that long.
I know you all aren't doctors, so you don't know 100% whats going on, but I'm looking more for "This happened to me...etc" I've NEVER had sex, I'm NOT pregnant, Okay, well I'm thanking you in advance, I do rate everything, and leave feedback, depending on the answer depending on the rating.
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Alright i can def. answer this question becuase this happened to me! Its just you period is messed up some how but my doctor put me on birth control pills so now my period comes regularly but the good thing is it only come slike for 3 or 4 days haha its great... but dont worry about it nothing is seriously wrong with you.
Hey girl. I got a question. What if you think your boyfriend is cheating? I mean you aren't positive, but he hangs out with your bestfriend more then you. And he hardley calls you anymore or anything like that. What should I do??
Well first of all i think you should talk to this boyfriend of yours.. i mean he needs to know how you feel and maybe u need to be more protective or hang out with them when they hang out but he shouldnt be hanging out with this girl more than you, thats not being a bf like kinda guy lol...well i hope i could help ya