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Hey my name is "A" im 13 years old and know more than i should and ive been through so much shit in my life you wouldnt even believe it wiether its family problems or being pressured or you want to do something sexual but dont know how..i can answer just about any question u throw at me:) if you got a question just ask!

"A"
Gender: Female
Age: 13
AIM: XoArianaLynnXo
Member Since: January 9, 2005
Answers: 12
Last Update: January 12, 2005
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Well not to long ago, my boyfriend told me that he loved me. Now normally he only says it over the phone, so one day I told him I loved him, when we were face to face. Today, as he was getting on the bus to go out of town for wresteling, I called out his name and mouthed the words "I love you". All he did was stand on the stairs of the bus and stare at me, waved and left. I know that I probably shouldnt stress about it but what if he doesn't "feel the same way" anymore? (link)
i think he does you jsut shocked him when u said it....but i do think he loves you...


can birth control pills make you feel sick? and gain weight? if anything else let me know please (link)
yeah ofcourse


im 15 and well honstly ive only made out with 3 guys, and thats all ive ever sexually done... ive never "masterbated" whatever that means or anything like that but my bf keeps trying to finger me and stuff! if i let him do it..is it gonna hurt? can my "cherry" pop? is it gonna feel really bad? and if i let him do it will i be labled a slut? (me and my bf have been together 10-11 months now) anything? (link)
ok im 13 and i had this rule of nothing below the belt but i kinda let him break it...it only happend once...it can hurt a little but be very enjoyable for you to..the only reason i let him break my rule is bc i was enjoying my self so much and its a way of expressing your love...and you wont be labled as a slut if you only do it with one guy now if its 20 maybe!
hope i help
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i am a 13 year old girl, and i got my period for the first time today. i don't know how to tell my mom. any advice? (link)
when i first got mine i was with my friend at kennywood...and i ahd nothing becasue i wouldnt tell her or her mom so when my mom picked me up the next day i was like "hey mom we need to go to the store" and she goes why and i was like i need tampons...she was like ok and it was that easy but dont be scared she has it to!
hope i helped
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what happened when a guy gets an erection? can he get one from making out? (link)
of course all guyz are horn dogs..my boyfriend is the worst boy when it comes to that...


okay well im 14/f and i've shaved my down below area...now wenever i do it again it hurts b/c theres these little red dots and they start to bleed...please help me idk wat to do (link)
ouch yeah that hurtz just wait a little bit then shave again wait till the bumps go away...use lotion and soap...

hope i helped...

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Everytime i make out with my boyfriend i feel like he is attcking me with his tongue is this normal or does he have issues??? Can i have some advice to work around this!! (link)
just tell him to slow down some or just attack back...


Last night i was making out with my boyfriend, and the only thing i could feel was his braces. Can you give me any hints to avoid these jaw of life? (link)
i dont really know what to say i have braces and my boyfriend doesnt so i wouldnt know what it would be like to make out with me..he has never said anything to me about my braces so i guess after awhile he got used to it because he still wants to make out again and again so i guess just think of how much u love him and enjoy:D

hope i helped
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ok i have this HUGE project due TOMRROW and my partner (we got to pick our partners) shes my friend and everything but she is so flakey!! she already has a F in that class and i didnt know that and i tryed getting together with her over x mas vacation to start it and she never could...and i talked to her about it at school and shes lkie OMG ya when is it due again? OHH tuesday...well lets do it on sunday...and then so yesterday about 2pm i called her and she was getting ready to leave and then she was like lets just do it at lunch tomrrow...YEA FINSIH A PROJECT IN 30MINS AT LUNCH TOMRROW! but the thing is IM HOMESICK TODAY!! i am throwing up and EVERYTHING...and my grade s already a low c in that class....should i just do the whole project now and 4get about her (because for all i kno shell forget to go in at lunch today) and if i did do the whole project id only write my name on it...not hers....but the thing is we signed up and the teacher nows were partners....wat should i do...its a huge project but i have all day and if worse came to worse id hand it in a day late... (link)
i think oyu should do the project but tell the teacher hey umm she never did any of the work i did it all at home when i was sick...and if that gurl gets mad trust me she'll get over it

hope i help!


there was this girl that was pretty attractive sitting by me at the movies the other day and she goes to my school and i dont really know but ne way every time something scary popped up during she would grab my arm. So what do you think i should do. Do you think i should try to get to know her better or was it just nothing and i should forget about? (link)
go for it coming form a gurl i would only do that if i like the guy..!!


About a couple of days ago I got an e-mail from my boyfriend's sister. She told me that he tryed killing himself and he's currently in the hospital for blood loss. I'm blaming myself for all this. He told me he loved me a week ago or and I rolled my eyes and blocked him. Because we've been fighting for awhile. One of my friends told him I didn't love him, but mixed up the converstation when he should have said I didn't know if I had the same feelings for him anymore. My boyfriend took it the wrong way because I do really love him. Problem is, his family doesn't know if hes going to make it. I have no way to get to see him, because he's on the other side of Canada. (He moved). We've been together for 3 years. I know this is all my fault and I think about it everyday and been crying all the time. I don't know what to do. ANY help would be GREAT! (link)
wow this is a hard question...and its very sad but i dont think it was bc of you it was just a matter of what happend and ur blaming urslef and i dont think u should...maybe it would be nice to go see him if not mayb call and see i wil be praying that he makes it...i feel so bad!!


I am 15.recently my best friend said he likes this girl. he talks about her alot! I think its cute! but anyway. Recently he has said he has lost feelings for her and that he likes someone else. Ive known him for about 8 years and ever since then hes always told me who he likes and suddenly he wont! In class he'll say things that kind of lead me on to think that he may like me. like...randomly say i love you and he jokingly asked me to marry him (in the future of course!) now...am i jumping the gun or does he like me?!? HELP PLEASE! (link)
i think he does like you go for it but only if u want to bc my best friend has told me he likes me several times but i wont go out with him bc were best friends and it would screw everthing up




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