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Question Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 6:08 pm

I am 15.recently my best friend said he likes this girl. he talks about her alot! I think its cute! but anyway. Recently he has said he has lost feelings for her and that he likes someone else. Ive known him for about 8 years and ever since then hes always told me who he likes and suddenly he wont! In class he'll say things that kind of lead me on to think that he may like me. like...randomly say i love you and he jokingly asked me to marry him (in the future of course!) now...am i jumping the gun or does he like me?!? HELP PLEASE!

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JadedinNowhere answered Monday January 10 2005, 5:02 pm:
Maybe your feelings for him are making you want to believe he likes you? never the less, if he is becoming a bit more flirty than usual there is probably a hunch he likes you. But don't do anything too rash(unthought out). Flirt back a little.. see what happens? Maybe he'll open up to you if you drop a few hints.

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xxjools27xx answered Monday January 10 2005, 4:46 pm:
hmm... you know it really sounds like he might like you. if he does dont like laugh in his face. that could ruin your friendship. if you dont like him that way just explain to him that things would get awkward between you two if you started dating. but if you think this will work out and your prepared to risk your friendship then go for it!! good luck and if you have anymore questions feel free to im me. later.
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sam

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ArianaL13 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 9:15 pm:
i think he does like you go for it but only if u want to bc my best friend has told me he likes me several times but i wont go out with him bc were best friends and it would screw everthing up

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xpianogirl89x answered Sunday January 9 2005, 8:02 pm:
Well it sure does sound like he likes you.. BUT don't take our advice on here, cause we don't know him. lol but you do.. he's your best friend. Just make small talk with him and say,"Have you ever liked me as more than a friend?" (Only do this if you're ready to hear him maybe say yes.) From there it's up to you whether you like him or not.. Good Luck!

Hope I helped!
~Lana

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Shortie8959 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 7:52 pm:
I think he likes you. If he always told you who he liked, but not anymore, it's cuz that someone is you! Those little random things he says, he might be trying to give you hints, so talk to him about it! Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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guitargrl01 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 7:14 pm:
I'd say he liked you. Unless he became overly flirting over night. Ask him about it and maybe you'll end up liking him too. Hope i helped!

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Sunday January 9 2005, 7:05 pm:
well has he said that he loved you before like when he was able to tell you who he liked and stuff.. if not then yes he probly likes you.. and if you like him then maybe send him a few signles so he gets the picture that you like him you never no you to could end up as a couple Good Luck Ashlee

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FunnyCide answered Sunday January 9 2005, 6:56 pm:
It kinda sounds like he likes you, well, it sounds like he likes you. But don't just take our advice, go to your friend! Just subtly bring it up.. "so, have you ever liked me as maybe more than a friend?.." in person, on the phone (if you talk on the phone) or on AIM. Just whatever is better for you. Of course, he may "love" you, but not "like" you. You understand what I'm trying to say?.. you can love someone, but not want to go out with them. It's a love through friendship, not a boyfriend/girlfriend love. But it sounds like he likes you.. just ask him.
-FunnyCide

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angel411 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 6:53 pm:
I think he likes you, from what you have said... unless he has always acted this way. A similar thing happened to me a couple years ago where my best friend did the same thing. He wouldn't tell me who he liked but it was really obvious from the things he said the things he told me about her. What I did was make a code name for her (a fake name) that we both knew meant the girl he liked. Then I would jsut be like so did you see codename today? And he would say ya she was wearing her hair diff I liked it. And I would be like wow I wore my hair differently today too. It just became really clear that it was me. Of course, you could always just make him tell you but this way is another way to find out. ♥

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Karen answered Sunday January 9 2005, 6:44 pm:
He may like you, since he won't tell you who he likes but he always does and that he is showing different signs. Why don't you just ask him if he does like you? If he's your bestfriend, I'm sure he'll tell you! Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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