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17/F In Need Of Help.
About a couple of days ago I got an e-mail from my boyfriend's sister. She told me that he tryed killing himself and he's currently in the hospital for blood loss. I'm blaming myself for all this. He told me he loved me a week ago or and I rolled my eyes and blocked him. Because we've been fighting for awhile. One of my friends told him I didn't love him, but mixed up the converstation when he should have said I didn't know if I had the same feelings for him anymore. My boyfriend took it the wrong way because I do really love him. Problem is, his family doesn't know if hes going to make it. I have no way to get to see him, because he's on the other side of Canada. (He moved). We've been together for 3 years. I know this is all my fault and I think about it everyday and been crying all the time. I don't know what to do. ANY help would be GREAT!
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This isn't your fault. i promise. trying to take your own life is a big, big, big decision. It's never just one thing, or one PERSON. Ever.
Don't ever feel bad for the choices you make. Sometimes they work out, sometimes they don't, but that won't ever change. You sound like an empathetic, caring person, and you have nothing to feel badly for. You did the best you could, with what you had, and that's the best all of us can ever do.
Chin up, girly
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xo
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wow this is a hard question...and its very sad but i dont think it was bc of you it was just a matter of what happend and ur blaming urslef and i dont think u should...maybe it would be nice to go see him if not mayb call and see i wil be praying that he makes it...i feel so bad!!
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Hmm.. I think all you can do is send your best wishes, pray he gets better, and talk to him if he does. I hope that they can save him and I really haven't been through anything that comes close to this so I can't even begin to relate how you feel. You might want to get some counciling if he does pass, it sounds like you guys were really close and that it will probably take a while to get over. But hang in there, and do all you can to try and support him while he's in the hospital. Send flowers with a card overnight?
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This guy has a few more problems in his life if he's gunna try and kill himself just b/c you didn't like him. But do feel bad about rolling your eyes at him,that was kind of shitty. If he lives halfway across your country,then you really should of thought about breaking up right then and there. Still,it's not your fault,your boyfriend is suffering from serious depression and if he lives,he needs help. But even if he doesn't,don't blame you.
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DON'T BLAME YOURSELF! that was his choice to try and kill himself! there could be another side to the story of why he tried to, but it's not your fault! hope this helps!
~Alyssa
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This can't be all your fault. You just need to be strong, write him a letter or call him, as long as your words get to him, it may make him feel a little better. You need to tell him how much you love and care about him. If he doesn't make it, at least you will feel at peace about it. Chances are, he will make it, so you owe it to him to tell him how much you love and care about him. Just keep your head up, and be strong sweetie. Best of luck, keep me posted. -Angel
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