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ok there is this guy i like named Chris, and i love him so much, and we have talked a lot and all. but i asked him out and he said "no". but i got so attached to him, that when he turned me down i started to take razors and cut my arm, and i still do. and i want to stop but it helps to controll pain. how do i stop?Note:i am 14/female. i rate 5 to anyone who answers! (link)
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I understand what you are going through, i use to cut myself also and ill tell u right now that it is not the way to go and you will regret it many times later in life. Think of it this way you cut yourself to stop emotional pain but what your not seeing is that you are just making a permanent reminder of that pain right there in your skin where you can always see it. I have 21 scars just on the top of my left arm. (i dont wana count the the rest.... it hurts to remember why i did it) Every time you look at those scars you will remember the pain that you felt before so your not helping yourself your just hurting yourself even more.
A good way to stop the cuting is to find a hobby, mine is cars, when i get in a bad mood or just need a way to take my mind off of something i go outside and work on my car or just drive it until i calm down. Find yourself a hobby and make sure that its somthing you like to do offten even when your in a good mood and do that instead of the cuting.
I hope this helps
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Okay i'm a 17 year old female and i'm a senior in high school!!
Well I kind of think i have a problem... i freak out over the littlest things! It's so horrible, like for example this morning my mom wouldn't let me drive her car somewhere where i wanted to go (mind you i have my own car anyways) and i got so pissed i started yelling at her and got all mad. I tend to do this a lot and i sometimes i get so frustrated like when she says okay this is done or something i'll start crying becuase its almost like i like to argue or i just want her to tell me i'm right or something i can't explain it. She always tells me that she thinks i have a problem and i tell her that i agree and that i kind of think i need help or something but then she just kind of blows it off. I am a really sweet girl and i'd do anything in the world for anyone but i get so mad about the tiniest things? Is there something wrong with me? and how can i talk to my mom about this so that she takes me seriously about me needing help? (link)
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I know what you are talking about, i did the same thing. I got so bad that i got destructive and started puting holes in walls and just breaking things that i knew would break easy like my black lights. My parents got fed up with it and took me to a few doc's to see if it was chemical imbalance or something, Turned out i am bi-polar, They put me on some meds for awhile but then i stopped taking them because i noticed that i could work it all out on my own and didnt need to be controlled by a little pill. This might not be your problem but it is something to think about and maybe check up on.
I hope i helped in some way......
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