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Question Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 7:12 pm

Okay i'm a 17 year old female and i'm a senior in high school!!
Well I kind of think i have a problem... i freak out over the littlest things! It's so horrible, like for example this morning my mom wouldn't let me drive her car somewhere where i wanted to go (mind you i have my own car anyways) and i got so pissed i started yelling at her and got all mad. I tend to do this a lot and i sometimes i get so frustrated like when she says okay this is done or something i'll start crying becuase its almost like i like to argue or i just want her to tell me i'm right or something i can't explain it. She always tells me that she thinks i have a problem and i tell her that i agree and that i kind of think i need help or something but then she just kind of blows it off. I am a really sweet girl and i'd do anything in the world for anyone but i get so mad about the tiniest things? Is there something wrong with me? and how can i talk to my mom about this so that she takes me seriously about me needing help?


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Additional info, added Sunday January 9 2005, 7:14 pm:
Oh and i'm sure i'll get some people jsut telling me that i'm a brat or something but really its not like that! I'm not spoiled and I would rather not be! I appreciate things its just small things get me so flustered!.

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DaPacman42086 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 8:19 pm:
I know what you are talking about, i did the same thing. I got so bad that i got destructive and started puting holes in walls and just breaking things that i knew would break easy like my black lights. My parents got fed up with it and took me to a few doc's to see if it was chemical imbalance or something, Turned out i am bi-polar, They put me on some meds for awhile but then i stopped taking them because i noticed that i could work it all out on my own and didnt need to be controlled by a little pill. This might not be your problem but it is something to think about and maybe check up on.

I hope i helped in some way......

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Shortie8959 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 7:47 pm:
Ya, I know what you mean, I'm 16 and do like, do the same thing. It's normal, cuz you're just going through puberty and stuff. Just write your mom a note or an email saying how you feel. This is what I do, and it works like a charm! Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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SarBear456 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 7:24 pm:
First off.. I completely understand what your trying to say. I do the same thing, and what I find helps is when you find yourself getting so mad, just take a second to think if its really worth getting this mad over. Your mom might not take you seriously because your a teenager, and a lot of teenage girls have 'attitudes' or get mad over little things.

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