i have this friend named amy, she always brags how skinny she is and if shes one pound over she says shes fat. all my friends say im to skinny, but i think im fine. amy always jokes around with me , like saying " your fat..and stuff. and it really makes me mad. i told her how i felt many times, but its like she forgets and does it so often.now my friends are saying i look too skinny. what should i tell amy.
Shortie8959 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 7:48 pm: Try writing her a note and tell her that you're freaking serious when you tell her it makes you mad. If she doesn't stop, I would suggest finding better friends, because she's not really being one.. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
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angel411 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 7:43 pm: Your question is a little confusing. What are you really asking? Because on one hand you are saying that you are mad at your friend for calling you fat. On the second you keep mentioning how your friends are now saying you are too skinny. What should you tell Amy??? I guess just tell her how you feel. Tell her to stop calling you fat because your not and don't enjoy her joking around about it. Just relax though, some people are just like that and it annoys everyone but they don't change. She's prob. just jealous [ angel411's advice column | Ask angel411 A Question ]
Karen answered Sunday January 9 2005, 7:41 pm: Just tell Amy to stop because what she's saying isn't true. Tell her that other people are actually giving nice comments instead of joking around ones. If she still doesn't understand, just move on because you don't need her as a friend. Hope I helped :)
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xoxsweetashley91 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 7:31 pm: say to amy that shes not funny when she says it, it hurts. also if she calls you fat again say "oh yes. im a LARD ASS" lol. but i think you should just ignore her until she stops. she'll get the hint. Please rate! Hope i helped! [ xoxsweetashley91's advice column | Ask xoxsweetashley91 A Question ]
Sherry answered Sunday January 9 2005, 7:24 pm: Just tell her that when she says that you believe it! And that its not good for you when you hear it. Cu my sister called me fat and stuff and it totally messed with me and I thought about like anoerixia and stuff...just tell her that it hurts and that she needs to stop. If she doesnt stop, dont be friends with her!! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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