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This hurts and i don't know why!
I like this guy who likes me too, but the thing is I'm so scared to fall in love because i dont wanna get hurt! My friend thinks i've already fallin for him but i'm hoping that It's not true! It's weird because when i'm not around him I feel so empty! But then when he's with me I fell like my feet won't ever touch the ground again. How can I not fall in Love?!
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We dont get to pick the people we fall in love with they just come into your life and bring a whole new meaning an purpose to it weather you expect it to or not. In this world you have to take chances or you'll never know whats real and whats fake. Think about it this way. Would you rather take a chance and yall stay together forever or not take a chance and spend the rest of your life wondering if yall would still be together or not. Or it could turn out that he hurts you and yall break up. but trust me its so much more worth it for him to hurt you and KNOW yall weren't meant to be than break up and not know. Face-it you've already fallen for this guy so if you break up with him, you're only going to be hurting yourself.
You know whats going to happen? your going to be so worried about him hurting you, that eventualy your going to be the one that hurts him.
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OH honey, you sound so much like me last year. I've been with the guy for over a year. I got my heart stomped on by this guy who lied, and cheated on me, then lied about lying and cheating on me. Lol. I didn't want to get into another relationship, but this guy invited me out to see a movie with him, and instead of typing "Sorry, I'm busy," like I meant to, I typed "Sure, why not?" instead. Lol. That night, we confessed that we liked each other, and I continued to fight my crush on him. I failed miserably, and we decided to solidify it into a relationship.
The smartest thing I ever did was let my wall fall and let myself fall in love with him. I've never been so happy in my life. I speak from experience, as you can tell - with love, there's always a risk of being hurt. But when the guy likes you as much as you like him, if not more, the chance of being hurt is very little. Trust me, it's disgustingly difficult to keep yourself from falling in love. But, if you're so determined, focus on his bad points. If you can't find any, you're as doomed as I was, lol. I couldn't find any bad points either. If you're so worried, tell him what you feel. Tell him you're afraid of getting hurt, and that's why you're so reluctant to get into a relationship. If you want more help with this, don't hesitate to contact me, I'd love to help you through this. I went through exactly the same thing, so I know what you're feeling. I hope this helps! -Siren =)
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sorry but you can't control falling in love
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It's unavoidable. Don't be scared! Love is a wonderful thing that can either hurt you until you bleed or make you so happy that you couldn't live without it. It's something most people fear but when they REALLY fall in love, they no longer fear it. Just dive in. You won't regret it. Hope i helped!
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you cant not fall in love! im sorry but thats the way it goes. I felt the exact same way a couple of months ago...ended a realationship over it. I think the best thing for you to do is just to take it slow. So you wont get hurt that easily and may be able to detect when your about to be hurt! keep in touch let me no how it works out! my screen name is arialuvsu333
hope i helped!
~*~ Aria ~*~
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Why would you not want to fall in love? Consider yourself lucky. But if you really want to lose him.. refer to the movie "how to lose a guy in ten days" that all will probably work like a charm. But mostly I'd like to say that life is too short to pass something you feel so strongly about up. Let what you feel decide, but be careful.. heartbreak just comes with life..
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If you don't want to fall in love, then you have to break it off with him, fast. Don't be scared to get hurt, don't be like every other person in the world. You owe it to this guy to fall in love with him, if you do get hurt, then you just bounce back and you've learned a lesson. There is never a way not to fall in love, but you can fall out of attachment by getting over and rid of him. I really hope you don't do that. But good luck with whatever you do in life. -Angel
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you cant be scared to fall in love...believe me, if you are scared of falling in love all your life....your never going to be happy, especially when you do like this guy. You say when hes gone you feel empty, but yet when hes with you you feel as if your feet wont ever touch the ground. It seems as if you have a crush/love with him right now. But honestly, people get hurt and who knows...this might be real, and you guys can last for a long time if you ever go out or get married or such. Believe me, go with your heart, and let it tell you what you really want. I hope i helped.
~Dom
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