Gender: Female
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
AIM: Beatboxroxx
Member Since: January 9, 2005
Answers: 18
Last Update: June 16, 2006
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ok, bout a month ago i broke up from a serious long term relationship which was long distance. the day after i broke up i met one of my friends good friends and me and her got really close over night (talked from 10pm till about 11 the following night almost non stop). for a while i spent almost everyday with her just talking but her boyfriend got really jelous and she and him started fighting over me. all her friends said that me and her were constantly flirting. i agreed to step out of her life for a month while exams were on so she wouldnt always be fighting.. in a few days that month will be up and im not sure how to go about making the friendship like it was or maybe more if she wants. (link)
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well i think that you should call her and be like hey hows everything going and just ask her if she still wants to be friends or if she wants to wait a little longer
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okay so I have known this girl (my best friend) for years we are both 17 and almost 18 and latley she has been totally ditching me, and this guy I have liked for many years just home because he moved for 2 years and now she tells me she likes him, and whenever we hang out she'll say how she got to spend so much time with him or whatever it really bothers me though what should i do, is she jelous? and also when people give me compliments she tries to tell me that they didn't mean it or it isn't true!! HELP. (link)
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there is a possibility that she could be jelous about people giving you compliments but it also might be because she wants attention and about the boy i think that you are both jelous of each other she knew that you liked him so then she tries to hang out with him to get on your nerves what i would do is talk to her about it and be like hey you knew that i liked him now all of a sudden you start to like him and you should both just try and move on and forget about him because if one of you goes out with him then more than likely the other person will get mad and yall start to fight and soon she wont be ur friend anymore! Hope it helps
~ Kristen ~
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well im seriously in love with this girl shes the women i would give my whole heart to the only girl for me in my eyes My feelings for her are so strong yet i im positive she doesnt like me like that but i have never told her how i feel should i do it for some closure or should i just move on (link)
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i know this can be really hard trust me i have been through this and i found that it is best to tell them how you feel because you never know they may like you after all and then if she doesnt like you then kind of just take a back seat and hold off for a while hope everything works out
~ Kristen ~
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I hang out at this place alot and everyone there is really nice. They say they are my friends and occasionally talk to me but when they are talking about personal things they tell everybody except for me. When I try to ask what they are talking about they say, "Oh, nothing" and "Nevermind". I thought they were my friends but I feel really left out all of the time and I know I am the only one left out from the entire group. I dont know why they leave me out. I dont know if i should confront them about it or just let them go on without me. (link)
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Well it depends on how important to you because thats not right if they leave you out i know that sometimes i tell my best friend never mind and it gets on her nerves and she told me that it bothered her so i caught myself doing it and i told her that i was sorry so if you really want them to be you friends and you trust then would say confront them and tell them how it makes you feel like you are left out but if your friends that you hang out with dont really matter to you then i would say forget them and go find new friends sorry it took me so long to write back
~ Kristen ~
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hey hey babe! wut do u do when your suppose to be best friend ALWAYZ talks bout the guy you liek to your face and ALWAYZ flirts with him and it makes you so mad and she does it on purpose and she KNOWS you like him. I tell her i like him and shes like o0o i dont care and STILL flirts with him. but he dont like her! what do i do! (link)
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You need to think since she keeps doing this and she KNOWS that you like him if she is really your friend because real friends dont do that to you so just think how much of a friend she REALLY is if she knows you like him and she still does it i hope that works out babe i love you
~ Kristen ~
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What should you do when you suspect that your freind may be or start cheating on her bf? she has cheated on her bf's in the past, so im not sure. I know her bf, but we arent like freinds, but i still dont want her to cheat on him. so yea, help if you can.
Thanks,
Confused (link)
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Well first before you suspect anything talk to her about her boyfriend and stuff like that because cheating is a big thing and it hurts everyone and once you find out that she is cheating i would go tell her boyfriend or actually talk to him about it and tell him about it kind of try to get him to see her cheating on him because sometimes people wont believe each other so yea i hope that helps
~ Kristen ~
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well it wasent me i found out from one of her friends that its some basketball guy but i wanted to thank u for ur help and now im tryin to get with a diffrent girl that ive had a crush on for a while and hope it works out (link)
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well im glad everything kind of worked out good luck on the new girl keep me updated
~ Kristen ~
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ok well i have tried to find out who she is talkin about but i cant and all her friends tell me they know who she likes but wont tell me what should i do (link)
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dont keep bugging her about it just try to find out more about the person and not WHO the person is its easier to ask what hair color or what grade they are in and stuff like that but dont really make it obvious hope it helps a little keep me updated
~ Kristen ~
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ok so i told this girl that i liked her like u said i should and she said thats sweet and said im cute and sweet and then said that she likes this guy too but isnt sure if he likes her and said he goes to haltom and i know him but wouldnt tell me should i take that as a hint that she might be talking about me or no (link)
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I wouldnt take it as a hint yet but i would keep trying to find out who this guy is but hey it just maybe you i have no idea hope it helps keep me updated
~ Kristen ~
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I like this girl alot but i know we probally will not hook up but i like her so much i would give anything to spend one day with her to show her how much i care but i dont know what to do to help me move on i liked her so much i want to move on so i can stop feelin this pain what should i do (link)
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i would talk to this girl first before you move on because moving on takes a while especially if you liked her alot all i can say is if you really want to move on then it just takes time try really hard not to think about her and i am here to talk about it with you if you still need help getting over her hope everything works out
~ Kristen ~
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i like this one girl alot more then anyone i know but im almost positive she doesnt like me like that and theres another girl i like that i could be with but i like the other girl more i dont know what i should do (link)
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i would talk to the girl that you really like to figure out how she feels about you and then go from there if you dont think anything will happen then eithier stay single or go for the other girl (only ask her if you know that you at least have a some feelings for her other wise its a lost cause) hope everything works out
~ Kristen ~
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What are you suppose to do when you've been gonig out with this guy for only about 2 weeks but you don't really like him as much as you thought you did!! If you talked more when you were just best friends! But you don't want to break up with him becuase you are afraid you are going to loose his friendship and that would just be weird if we didnt talk anymore?!?!? (link)
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talk to him about it and ask him how he feels about this if he feels the same way then the break up is mutual and still be friends you never know best friends make good couples hope that helps love you kidd
~ Kristen ~
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What do you do when you suppose to be best friend thinks you have the perfect life and she is thinking about cutting herself when her life has nothing gonig wrong right now and is better then mine!!??? She has the guy she wants and everything!!
LoVe AlWaYz
U ShOuLd KnOw AlReAdy CaMe FoR AdIvE BuNcHeZ Of TiMeZ!!hehe!! thankz so much for the adivce!! (link)
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Well first off i would tell her parents that she may start to be a cutter and then second tell her the dangers of cutting and try to tell her that its bad and she could die and tell her all the people that would care about her if she did die and if they knew how she is hurting her body hope its helps kid
~ Kristen ~
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What are you supposed to do when you find out that all your freinds hate you? like they hate everything about you and people atrt like not being your friends. i am really confused/upset/depressed! please help me if you can!
Love ALways,
your `lil sis (link)
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Hey kid I am sure that everybody doesnt hate you me mckenna lauren erin amelia lesley pat weaver and everybody at dance and to help you all you have to do is be yourself and DONT change for anybody no matter what i hope that helped i love my little sister
Kris
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What do you do when your suppose to be best friend likes the guy you like and he likes her and she might go out with him or at least she likes flirts with him ALL the time even in front of your face and she knows you like him. But when some guy that she likes liked me i didnt go out with him OR flirt with him!! (link)
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Well if she is supposed to be your best friend then you should talk to her about how you feel tell her that you really like him and reminder her of the guy that she liked and liked you and just really tell her how you feel she may not listen and if she doesnt then she isnt really ur best friend (hey dont go out with a guy that you like) and thats really all i can tell you tell me how it works out though hope it helps
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what do you do when you just lost your best friend? and when you are with her all so she does is talk about how many guyz like her!! Like if you say you like some guy she would be like oo i talked to him and he likes me!! its really annoying! Then the only tiem the guys ever call to talk to you is when shes over!! (link)
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Maybe she is jelous of you because when she talks to the guys you like they really dont like her they like you and she just wants them for herself so she tells you that so that she can have the guys to herself and to back u off of them I know what you mean cauz that would be very annoying to me and about the calls she may just get her friend to call and pretend that its a guy to make you jelous
what i would do is kind of just leave her alone and ask the guys or get a CLOSE friend to ask them if ya dont want to do it yourself and then just go along with it and dont worry about that friend she might be jelous hope that helps
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well.... there's this gurl nd she is WAYyYyYyYyYy awsome!!! shes like.....my big sis!!! hehe, love ya babe, thanx for everything!!
Signed,
lil sis! (link)
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Thats really Nice of you and all but who are you again lol just kidding
* REMEMBER whatever happens at PIZZA GARDEN stays at PIZZA GARDEN*
** maybe we should put on a show like randomly start dancing in front of the window**
well thank u lil sis sorry that we get into so many fights
great times great times
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What do you do if you love your boyfriend of a month ((today)) but you meet someone really cool on the internet that lives not 15 mins away and is your ideal guy? (link)
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I would try talking to this guy for a while and meet him and when you do bring friends because for all you know it could be this old bald guy and he may try and take advantage of you (that may seem dumb but hey it happens and we dont want that to happen to you) and then like figure out who you like more ask urself these questions: Who do you feel more comfortable around? Who makes you laugh? who do you feel that you can talk to about anything about? you know stuff like that then who ever gets the most is the guy that you should stick with
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