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boyfriend bad rep
okay heres my problem..one of my best friends is going out with this guy two years older than her... and he has a REALLY bad rep like everyone knows him for having sex and using all these girls... but ive talked to her and him many times and hes changed a lot over the year, and he really likes my friend and he wont let her do anything too bad because he doesnt want her to think hes using her, but were going into highschool and i really am scared for her beacuse she will start to get the bad rep and no one understands there relationship and will think hes just using her.. what should i do and what should she do should she break up with him and wait till later in the year or what?
thanks
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yall dont need to worry about wut ppl think its not a big deal! Rumors spread and rumors go away! I do know that if he does somthing bad such as hit her call the cops immdiatly! and do ur best to keep her safe let her and her family stay with u! Its just a percaution!
~Allie Cat~
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If she really likes him, then they should stick it out. People always talk, and they will think what they want. The best way to get people to shut up, is just your friend and her boyfriend to show people how much they mean to each other, and how much he has changed.
A bit of warning: I married a guy with a reputation. While is the greatest guy I have ever met, and he completely changed, all of my friends that knew his rep completely stopped being friends with me when we told them we were getting married. We have a great relationship, but we both lost all of our friends to be together. We've made new ones since, and I figure the old ones will come around eventually. But your friend may want to be prepared for something like that to happen.
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Wow your friend could be in serious trouble.Everyone knows about HIV and she just dosent think about what might happen if he has it.He might spread the sickness to her.Guys have a thing to make girls trick them into haveing sex and if that might happen to your friend so i say she should brake up with him and keep a close watch for your good friend.
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If you really like someone you just date them and the heck with what anyone thinks. I really don't know why you think going into high school will make anything different than it is now. It won't. If she doesn't have a bad rep now, going to school in a different building isn't going to change that. HE may have, it shouldn't affect her any. :)
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You should never break up with sum1 just because of their bad rep. I mean if you seriously love some one you really shouldnt care what others think! You friend needs to just ignore others they are just jealous.
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NO THEY SHOULDNT BREAK UP!!!!!!!!!!! ok, i had to get that out of my system...sorry. ok now, for your other questions. look, if your friend really likes this guy then it really shouldnt madder right? and i know this is hard for you but if you see or hear anyone talking about them then stick up for her. tell them to mind their OWN bizness and to stop being the preppy bitches that they are being. i know its tough to stick up for someone but its one of the only choices you have hun! sorry if this didnt help ya.
good luck,
♥ leah
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talk to her about it. tell her exactly what you juss typed and explain to her that you want people to respect her and to not have a bad reputation. after you talk to her, maybe she'll explain to her bf too.
good luck!
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