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Okay, I have this friend, Charles, and he is kinda my exboyfriend I guess. But since the day I met him and to this very second, he has changed a lot. He used to be caring and sweet. Now he's mean and an asshole. I don't know like what to do because he blames it on me saying I'm the asshole. So today I told him we should pretend we don't know each other for awhile and he's all like "well I know what's gonna happen, it'll be awkward to talk and we'll drift apart." Which personally is what I wanted because I want my old life back. And I told him that, and I also told him that I don't want him talking to my friends becuase he would have never known them if it wasn't for me. I know it sounds selfish, but he talks about me to them everyday and says all this stuff, which mostly isn't true, then they all like ask me questions. I'm like arghh!! Like I'm totally sick of it and I need help because now he's all like, "no that ridiculus, I'm not gonna stop talking to them." And tonight all of my friends got into a fight. I just stopped crying. I'm tired of it. I've had like major breakdowns where i just have to sit or else I'll kill someone. It's horrible. What should I do? Please help.
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This guy sounds like a real jerk. First off get away from him you can actually have the fone company block a number from being able to reach your house so report his number. If he starts coming to your house threaten to call the police. If he is honestly driving you so mad that you want to kill someone maybe you could get a restraining order but thats only nessacary if he like REALLLLY invading your personal life or threating you. Call your friends up one by one and say sorry even though you don't think it's your fault. Tell them you really don't like charles and your doing your best to get away from him. Tell her I just want you to know that I wouldn't lie to you what charles says isn't true. Make up with everyone of your friends and hopefully they'll see your point. Maybe every night before bed have some herb tea and just relax get rid of the stress because one guy isn't worth it. I hope this helps
Kelli
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some men become assholes when they really like you or are jelous or somthing. or maby somthing is going on in his life. i have a feeling he'l get better
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i think you should totally forget about him really like if he tries to call dont pick up and if he tries to come over (i know this sounds mean but) say get off my property or else i am calling the cops. only if he is really upsetting you (by the way it sounds like he is) and if you dont want him talking to your friends and he wont liston tell them not to talk to him cause i know if their your true friends and they care about you they will do whatever it takes for you. and if he dosent go away tell him you are not thretend by him and will call the police if he doesnt stop because if he is causing all of these fights then he has no right to be around anymore. well i hope my advice helped:)
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I know it may seem tough, but you can't keep your ex-boyfriend away from your friends. You could always talk to your friends and let them know how you feel about your ex. It sounds like you have already had a talk with your ex and theres not much else you can do. Hope everything turns out alright for you!
Love ~Ash~
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You have every right to choose not to speak to this guy agian if he makes you miserable.
You don't however have any right to tell him he can't speak to your friends!
The better thing to do about this would be to tell your friends that you don't want to speak to this boy agian and ask them not to talk about him to you.
You might have to remind them once and a while but if they are truely your friends they will respect your choice and reasons and you wont have to hear about him anymore.
Eventually, your friends and this guy will get bored with talking about you, if you cut off contact with him and stop giving him new things to whine about.
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well what you should do is just tell your friends to ignore him and that he is gay and if they are your real friends they will do so cause they should believe you!...hope i helped a bit
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