I've known this boy for about a year now and right when I met him I liked him a lot. I've gone out with him 3 times. I ALWAYS think about him. It's so hard not to. And if i hear that he likes another girl a little i cry. He says he likes me but I just heard about the other girl thing. Anyways, I havent SEEN him for 4 months straight. I feel really depressed if i dont talk to him for a long time. If I think about him my heart starts to like pound and when he comes online I get a really cold sweat. Do I love him or what? it feels like I do so much and if he died OMG id probably cry my eyes out for 3 weeks straight. SO do you think I'm obsesed or I love him?? :(
True love consists mainly of trust. When he is talking about another girl, it fuels distrust in your heart towards him. I do not think this guy is for you.
Acknowledge the personality traits this guy holds that makes your heart feel full. Keep these in mind when dating others. This will help you in finding the right one for you. I wish the best for you.
willa113 answered Sunday August 28 2005, 5:33 pm: yes you do love him and i know how you feel. i feel the same way about a girl i know. you should go back out with him and stay that way and if you don't want to jus try to quit thinkin of him for a while and your feeling will faid [ willa113's advice column | Ask willa113 A Question ]
samXoXsam answered Sunday August 28 2005, 5:08 pm: i dont think your in love and your not obsessed you just really care about him and really like him alot maybe if he knew that you and him could go out again...you should get someone to tell him you really care and like him alot or you can just tell him urself
TheCynic answered Sunday August 28 2005, 4:22 pm: I'm apologizing for percieved harshness now:
You count the times you went out with him. I'll count the times you all broke up. He broke your heart three times. Isn't that enough for one year?
You haven't seen him in four months, he likes other girls, and you're constantly depressed. Is this really what you want in a relationship? He may like you, but truthfully, he doesn't feel the same way you do about him.
Actions speak louder than words. And by his actions, he's trying to tell you that he doesn't like you, no matter what he says... in this kind of situation, it doesn't matter what you feel for him. Get out, before you get more love-sick than you already are.
Find something else to do, don't think about him. Keep busy, and over time, you'll begin to get over him. It takes a while, but it works. And then you'll find a new, great, amazing guy.
margarita_luvs_ya answered Sunday August 28 2005, 4:14 pm: I think that your just crushing over him. If you get nervous when you see him or jumpy n butterflys in your stomach or you get all sewaty n stuff you're probably in love and it could last a while. If you really like him ask him to hang out not like a date but like a group thing or something. [ margarita_luvs_ya's advice column | Ask margarita_luvs_ya A Question ]
t0xicParadiSe answered Sunday August 28 2005, 4:07 pm: sounds to me like you really love him and cant live without him!
and no dont worry your not obsessed
x0oOHUGSNKiSSES answered Sunday August 28 2005, 3:11 pm: your not obsessed dont worry you just care about him alot and want him to love you ... face it sweetie ... your inlove !!
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