Ok well I started school 2 days ago, and already I'm hating it. But not just because of the classes/teachers. I hate it because I don't have many friends in my classes. In 4 out of my 7 classes, there's only 2 ppl I like (my bf and this one girl). The problem is that all the teachers seat us alphabetical order, and my last name isn't close to my bf or friend. So, basically I'm sitting by people I'm not really friends with. I have known these people that i'm sitting with for a couple of years, and although i can talk to them, Im not really friends with them. They're ok people and all, it's just I feel left out and lonely sometimes.
My question is- what do I do? I mean, iv'e been trying to make friends with these people and it's not working. Help please!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? rikatree2375 answered Friday August 19 2005, 8:59 pm: Making friends takes a long time. People are intimidated when it comes to making new friends. They like going through their regular routine with the same people. Try just striking up a conversation with somebody who looks really nice. Open up and give them time. It takes a while to really build up a good friendship. I was new to my school last year and didn't know a soul. Now i know a ton of people because i just started talking to them. Try that and give it time. Hope i helped!!!
samXoXsam answered Thursday August 18 2005, 9:05 pm: well i think you should talk to them get to know them more and evantually you will become friends with them
Alexandria answered Thursday August 18 2005, 10:49 am: If you only have ur bf and that one girl that u like thats all you need! And if youwant more try harder! Like go up to them say hey then just listen to wut they r sayin and agree! I hope this helps!
shutupnkissme98 answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 10:25 am: well its only been 2 days! give it time. youll get to them more and become friend dont worry!just belive in yourself and dont be nervous about talking to people.
needadvice answered Tuesday August 16 2005, 10:24 pm: when you are assigned something to do with the people your not used to try participating with the people and show how intrested you are to be with them and then i suggest you try to show off your areas of expertise and in no time you wont feel left out!
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