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..more than friends??
15/f *Ohhkay, so i have this amazing guy..but we're just reallly good friends."with benifits" I love him and i know he loves me and we've been talking about "doing it" i know we are both ready, and we will def use protection. But my question is..do you think if we actaully do it..we wil end up going out? I mean,I would love to go out with him, and ive always wanted to.
So do you guys think if we do it that theres a possibility that he may like me more than a friend?!
Thanks so much guys/I'll rate HIGH!! ;)
-kristen
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Onistly .... guys just want a girl for a peace of ass some times but what i would do is talk to him abou tit first cuz onsitly if your ready you should no if oyur going to be in a rilationship befor DOING IT... other whys your could get oyur heart broken...
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*christina*
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"Friends with benefits" is never a good thing and you shouldn't sleep with a guy for the first time because you want to be with him. And if he keeps putting on the idea about friends with benefits, it will only go that far.
♥ Brooke
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First off sweetie, dont have sex with him just so you will be able to be with him, because you'd be doing it for the total wrong reasons. There is a possiblity that you may end up going out, but I dont think so. In some cases sex draws people closer, but in others they just think that since they;ve already done everything with someone, why bother being with them. I think you should be in a relationship with someone first before going to that step. Because then your going it to bring you closer than you already are, not to just make you close.
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Deff..... I mean that is a commitment that a lot of people take to heart and if you do take that step you guys will be more closer whitch will mean he will see you in a diff. light! You should go for it!
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um i would make sure that there is a possibility first...you just dont have sex with guys and ...thats just wrong....hes supposed to be your boyfriend first if u dont know how he feels aboout you then you're not ready to have sex
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Probably not. You need to find out first. You should tell him that you want to be his girlfriend. If he agrees, make him wait a little while to have sex. See how he treats you while you are making him wait. If he pushes or gets mad, then he just wants the sex. And another thing, he may be your really good friend, but hes still a horny little teenage boy. They will say anything to get a girl in the sack, so watch out and make sure hes not doing that. good luck<3
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yah he would probably want sumthing more after that. but you should probably go out with him BEFORE having sex.hope i helped XoXo
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yeah .. he might like you more then a friend after that.. but would you want him to be more then your friend before that.. because (i dont know this other kidd at all) but what if ya'll do it .. and he asks you out .. and you date. but he takes advanged of you .. and he uses you to do it. that wouldnt be cool.
so maybe you should talk to him about dating.. then doing it.
but if you really want to do it with him before you go out w/ him.. then go ahead. i think you havea 50 50 chance on whats gonna happen.
justine
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i dont think juss because you guys have sex itll end up you guys dating. you should ask him, because you dont wanna ruin the friendship, so juss talk to him about it.
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I think before you jump into sex with this guy you need to make sure that he's going to stick around. If he loves you and wants to be with you, I don't see where sex should be a requirement before you start a relationship. Take your time and make sure he's not jerking you around before you decide to have sex with him. A lot of guys hold out the promise of something more just to get sex then move on when they get it.
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swweetie..no no no..please dont turn into a statistic..i just read in a magazine that a lot of girls have sex because they think having sex will make the guy like you..and want a relationship. this is not the case. dont get your heart broken! this guy wants to have sex for the thrill of sex..if he liked you, he would want to be more than just friends with benefits. please please dont think having sex will make him like you or want to be more than friends with benefits..and if this is the reason you want to have sex, dont do it sweetie.
i hope i helped..
-melissa-
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Its okay for you to want to have sex. Its okay for you to be in love. Its even okay for you to want to be with someone. When you lose your virginity make sure you are already with the person, and you love them. Dont EVER have sex because you think you'll get a relationship out of it. Because then its not really what you want, you just wanted a relationship - which is highly unlikely you'll get after you have sex.
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No, I don't think you will end up going out. Have you heard the old saying...why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Same thing. He won't go out with you because he won't need to. He can have you and not worry about buying you dinner and a movie first. Not a good idea...trust me on this one. :)
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