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sorry this is so long but please take the time to read it. my best friend...lets call her Alyssa, she has been my best friend for about 2 years. we've had our fights and everything like a normal friendship. right? haha. but the past winter, we didnt hang out at all because her dad started to hate me. so she wasnt allowed to hang out with me. once he found me, my brother, and her walking home from school together and he got so pissed. he was yelling at her so loudly outside, in front of all the neighbors. so we never let him see us hang out together. but hes in the army or something and he leaves home for a long period of time (like a month and a half) and then her mom started hating me for no reason. and so we never were allowed to chill out together. and we live half a block away. BUT now, her mom likes me..and her dad is gone but they dont tell him that alyssa is allowed to come over to my house now. her mom lets alyssa come to my house everyday now! haha. but maybe not everyday. but im wondering..isnt this wrong? i mean, her dad thinks that his daughter is staying home but shes actually haning out with me. is that wrong? alyssa is so cool and i really want to keep being her best friend. (im not a lezbian and im not bi)
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I dont think its wrong. If her mother has no problem with it then its not like your sneaking around to hang out. Both parents are able to make that decision & if one of them is gone then the other must make decisions based on what she thinks is right.
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It's not exactly being honest to her dad. If he's gone right now, you can't really do anything. Maybe mention to her mom that he should know what's going on. If her mom is supportive, she should find a way to make things okay with her husband. But for now, just hang out with her and dont feel bad because it's not your responsibility to fix this situation. Hope i helped!!!
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yah it is sorta rong but thats really alyssa's mothers problem. i mean its her husband after all. just dont worry about it because it isnt your problem.hope you and alyssa can keep being bff's.hope i helped XoXo
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I think, if your mom is cool with the fact that you two are being good friends, then that rocks! If there is a problem when Alyss'as dad returns, ask Alyss'as mom to talk to her dad. Maybe, he'll understand because you two are such good friends! Try it! But if you feel that hiding your friendship is the right thing to do, follow your heart and let it decide for you. That would help a lot. Hope my advice works for you. Goodluck!
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It isn't necessarily right to sneak around behind her dad's back, but if you guys are really best friends then I wouldn't let something like that come between the two of you. I would just ask her what her dad doesn't like about you & fix the problem & I'm sure her dad would change his mind & it would be easier for you two to hang out. I hope everything works out for you! If you need anything else just leave it in my inbox!
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She knows the reason she isn't allowed to hang out with you. Find out what it is and try to correct the problem. Then maybe her dad will let you two hang out together.
No, it isn't really a good thing to sneak around seeing each other. Her mom is kind of sending mixed signals so maybe she isn't against your friendship as her dad is. Maybe she could help her dad to see that it is okay for her to hang out with you. :)
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