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Help me out
I can't find the perfect boyfriend. I tried sticking to one boy but something messes it up. I just hate walking down the halls in school and see couples around me. I never tried putting myself out there,lol. Is there something wrong with me? I sometimes think I'd be lonley forever. I daydream of me in a steady,smooth relationship. But, I can't find the perfect boyfriend to share my feeling and secrets.
I need someone to help me out on this one!
Thanks
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There is no perfect boyfriend. Love isnt to find the perfect guy. Love is loving an imperfect person, perfectly. You need to find the perfect person FOR YOU. and dont go searching for someone, let it happen. The greatest loves in life are unexpected. Just hold out and you will eventually find someone you love. and I promise, the guy WILL have flaws, but to you, the good should outweigh the bad. So you wont love him because he is perfect, but he will be perfect because you love him. At least thats what you should aim for =)
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Well of course you're not going to find the perfect boyfriend! Not yet!! I'm going to assume that you are...around 14. The point of dating is to find someone special and rule out the people you don't want to be with....usually you find your "perfect man" when you're a LOT older, hon. Ya know, the whole marrage thing. You will feel like the only one without a boyfriend a lot. A lot of girls do. You don't NEED a boy, you merely WANT one. If you really want someone to share your feelings and secrets with, try a girl friend (friend that's a girl)!! They can be more....um....tactful than boys. Mostly people who are in their early teens accually aren't really ready for a reall relationship. Most couples only go out for a few weeks at the most where I live. It's crazy! You shouldn't care about what other people are doing. Don't jump at the first chance you get. Go with a guy because you care about him, not just because everyone else is doing it!
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No one is perfect. Even those we fall in love with have little things that drive us nuts. I'm happily married but my hubby still does certain things that drive me nuts.
Don't be in such a rush to get a boyfriend. It seems to me that since you're in a hurry, you're not looking to see if the guys you date are actually the right one for you. A lot of times when you quit looking so hard, your Mr. Right appears right under your nose. Take your time and find the one that's right for you. There's no certain age for that.
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No guy is completely perfect. Do you really know what you want in a guy? Remember that you have to go through alot of relation ships that don't work before you find a lasting one. And though stability is nice, it will get boring after a while, you're still in high school, you have plenty of time to find a good man!
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alright sista, i am here to help. i know im gonna get some nasty feed back for this but you should try to look at the good in people. if that doesnt work then my only advice for you is to just keep looking. there are MANY fish in the sea so dont be sad. you'll find someone. God has a plan for you, so just trust in him and you will go far. i know i must sound like a christian freak but i went to chruch today and i found out that God will always be here for me and you! so if you feel like your not important or speical then talk to him, i garentee he will listen to you. i hope i helped.
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The right guy will come along. You just have to give it time. You'll have many boyfriends, but only one will truly change your life. You just have to wait for him & he will come. There isn't anything wrong with you at all. There isn't a definition of a perfect boyfriend, but there will eventually be a time when you find someone that Y0U see as a perfect boyfriend, & thats all that matters. Your time will come. Just wait for it & good luck with everything. If you need anything else, just leave it in my inbox!
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There is no PERFECT BOYFRIEND. There is only the perfect boyfriend for you. You will eventually find a boy you can call perfect. You have to give it time. Honestly, dont spend so much time worrying about it... when it's time, he'll come along when you least expect it!
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nope there is absolutely nothing wrong..i mean we are still in school! my aunt is 40 and still not married..i hope thats not going to be me in 20 years, but my point is the "right one" will come along..most times if you have a highschool sweetheart..he wont be the same guy you mary. yes it works out that way..but its ok ..we are still young!
no worries :)
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No there is nothing wrong with you. You simply haven't found the perfect guy yet. Hes out there waiting and you will come across him when the time is right. :)
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