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I'm 14f and can't decide.


Question Posted Thursday August 11 2005, 2:40 am

I liked this one guy, weston. i thought he was a total sweetie and he always made me feel good about myself. he said he liked me too, but then i was over with him and some friends and i hugged my friend goodbye and he called me a whore but according to his friends hes just mad and still totally likes me. the thing is, im not big on forgiving people after they've just called me a whore so, yea. i still like him a little. then, there's this other guy, chris and he is also totally sweet and cute and i absolutley heart him. he made me feel a little better about the whole weston situation and he says he's starting to like me. well, i liked him a lot a little while ago but i never thought he would ever like me. so i also like him a little bit. so basically, my question is should i forget about weston and become closer to chris and who knows what might follow, since he DID call me a whore. or should i just wait til weston gets over his issue with me hugging other guys? im the kinda girl that just hugs all of her friends, ya know? so should i change who i am for weston or stay how i am and go for chris?

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VainTaraLynn answered Sunday August 14 2005, 2:37 am:
I think you should forget Weston and become closer with that Chris kid, because even though he just called you a whore for hugging another kid, it shows a jealousy / anger problem .. and shows insecurity. If you do end up going out with him you might regret it because things might get out of hand. In these kinds of relationships its always good to spot out the problem first before you actually pursue the relationship, it saves you alot of hassel, and problems later on. =)

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ConfusedBoutLove answered Friday August 12 2005, 4:38 am:
you should stay how you are and go for chris...what weston did was really mean and he should be able to let you hug other guys...this chris guy seems really nice to you and he was there for you when weston called you a whore...so i think you should stay how you are and go for chris...thats just what i think...hope i helped and good luck!

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denajah5 answered Thursday August 11 2005, 10:56 pm:
i think you should go for chris.he seems just ass good as weston except he didnt say any mean shit about you.plus you said it yourself that you like chris and your getting over weston.Chris seems like a better pick to me.and you heart him.
just follow your heart

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ElmosBrightStar answered Thursday August 11 2005, 7:10 pm:
Screw Weston, go for Chris. Hugging you're friends doesn't make you a whore, and he's just stupid.

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shutupnkissme98 answered Thursday August 11 2005, 5:48 pm:
dont change who you are for ANYONE! i think you should get over weston and go for chris. weston seems like hes gunna have you on constant lockdown if you go out with him since he gets mad by you just hugging another guy.and hugging more than one guy does NOT mean your a whore.hope i helped XoXo

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karenR answered Thursday August 11 2005, 11:49 am:
Go for Chris. Why waste any more time on a guy who calls you a whore for a simple hug? I think he needs to grow up before he dates girls :)

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givingbackmonday answered Thursday August 11 2005, 6:05 am:
i think youre probably better off with the chris guy. but i think that weston only called you a whore because he was jealous, but you still dont wanna go out with someone who will get jealous of your friends.

goodluck

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ncblondie answered Thursday August 11 2005, 5:24 am:
I think you're better off not being with a guy who has jealousy issues. Hugging another guy that's a friend is no cause for him to call you names. Changing who you are won't help in my opinion. You'll just end up resenting weston for making you be different than who you are. It seems like you have a good guy in chris. Take things slow and go for the one that makes you happy as you are.

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FRiGGUNxAWES0ME answered Thursday August 11 2005, 4:36 am:
Okay well i give all my advice in a Christian way but dont get me wrong im not like a nun ,lol. But for ONE do NOT change who you are because of some boy. You should find your true identity in Christ Jesus and only worry about pleasing him. And then if you put your faith in God he will show you what way to go.. and maybe neither one of them boys are best for you. But just trust God with it and he'll help you, if you need any extra help.. let me know. I'll pray for you.

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ADViCEx4xY0U answered Thursday August 11 2005, 4:18 am:
If you're the kind of girl who likes to hug all of her friends, I would go for Chris. You shouldn't have to change yourself for a guy. He shouldn't get jealous over a simple hug. I would understand if you were all over your friend, but all you did was hug him & thats perfectly normal for you to want to hug one of your friends. I hug mine all the time! So I say go for Chris. Good luck! =]

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falliingxagain answered Thursday August 11 2005, 4:16 am:
Weston had no right to get mad over you hugging a friend. That's the type of person thats going to get mad at you down the line for hanging out with your friends, or your family. He just may end up being controlling - and I doubt you want that (I've been there. DONE THAT.)! You should never change YOU for a guy. Never. Not for anyone. So I think Chris is a better choice based on what you've said. He obviously cares for you .. based on HOW you are.

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