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grrr!! help


Question Posted Wednesday August 17 2005, 5:42 pm

sumtimes i just cant stand my family..its like they dont even want me..im thinkin about running away!!!...should i?

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margarita_luvs_ya answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 6:48 pm:
Yeah I know how it feels I've got a rough family too. Running away won't solve anything believe me I know. I stay in my room alot Iming, phone anything but yeah I try to stay away from them at all cost un less I'm needed.

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crazy4him answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 6:46 pm:
No, maybe if you write them a letter and voice your opinon of how they are affecting you, you may be able to work things out. Don't run away as you will regret it and wished your family were there. Talk to someone else like a minister, teacher or another grownup. My family was like that, it was hard work but we worked it out! Good luck and I'll keep you in my prayers

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AllThatIveGotx711 answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 6:45 pm:
trust me know matter what dont run away
because you will soon relize every thing u had will be gone and it will make your life harrible talk to them about it dont be afraid to... i feel like that to its scarry or try to spend more tim ewith them or your friends to get out of the house

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azngemini answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 6:26 pm:
noooo, definately no
sometimes i really hate my family too.. and sometimes they make me feel unwanted and ignored.. it makes me want to run away too, but i dont actually run away because i know i'll just come back home the next day.
even though your family might act that way towards you, it's not really the way they feel. deep down inside they still care about you, and if you run away it's going to hurt the both of you. what you should do is confront your family about how badly they treat you.. pretend to cry and stuff..lol. trust me, running away is the wrong way to do things. it's not going to solve your problems. you should just stay with your family, no matter how much it seems like they dont want you. when you turn 18, you can walk out the door, curse at them a little bit, and leave them forever.

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sunnyville answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 6:14 pm:
Don't run away your family will be very upset and think about your parents of how you will like break their heart.And the only thing you'll be doing is running away from your problems instead of facing them,coming up with a better solution.Why do you say your family can't stand you?You need to have a talk with your family tell them how you're feeling of how they treat you until you can all settle your differences.Some people feel that way you could always count on your family than friends because they will always be there.Walking would help you take off your stress and thinking about how you want to solve problems even a psychiatrist would tell you that.Think about good plans you want to make to try to keep this off your mind for a while or things that make you active.

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cheesplease6 answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 6:00 pm:
no, dont run away, but if you really can't take them now, ask maybe if you can move in wiht like your g-ma or a cousin for a while

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Bergy413 answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 5:59 pm:
No, you deffinately should not. Imagine how terrified your parents would be. Just tell them how you are feeling. And also think about it. I often think of suicide myself because of how much my life sucks. But then i think of how much i would miss my family. Runing away wouldn't solve anything. I also remember that one day when i was little i went outside in the morning and i hid behind this one thing. My parents were looking everywhere for me. They were so worried that i was kidnapped and that something bad had happened to me. So you deffinately do not want to run away. Your parents could think that you had been kidnapped and killed. Also, if you run away, there will be alot of things that you will miss out on. Imagine not being able to take showers, have enough food, not having clean clothes everyday and being able to brush your teeth. Now that would be disgusting. So do not run away, there would be too many problems. Just tell your parents how you feel. I hope this adivce helps.

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ViTaChaN answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 5:57 pm:
No, you shouldn't!! Well, I had that kinda problem too when I was little. LoL. It was a long time ago.. But okay, bout your problem, don't run away..that's not good.. Your family will be so worried about you. You have to control your temper, they're your family, I'm sure the love and want you, they just can't show you how they feel.You should talk to them bout your feelings.. Hope I helped!

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ToTheEnd answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 5:53 pm:
Dont stress over your family my familys the same way!! dont run away just yet! try to aviod them by going in oyur room and if that doesnt work run away and see what hapens when you come back. it should shock them and the'll start to care about some more!!!! it worked for me!

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t0xicParadiSe answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 5:52 pm:
no dont run away believe me every one feels the same way its one thing all teenagers have in common - getting sick of their family
you just have to learn to cope with it and ignore it
but dont run away
if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥

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