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confused!
i like this guy, and im not sure how to approach him. he's a friend of mine's friend. but my friend wont talk to him for me .. so i guess im on my own. but idk if he'd be interested if i tried telling him i liked him. i met him before so he knows who i am. but i've liked him almost my whole freshman year and i just dont know how to talk to him about it. he's popular .. im not. and all that stuff. but im just not so great around guys and im wicked nervous. any ideas? any help would be great.
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just go up to him and say Hi hows agoin do u rember me and ask if hes free any day.... and if he says hes avalible ask him out on a date dont be afriad to
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lmao! wicked nervous.i like that.:)
NEWAYS!just um....hmm lemme think....ok like invite him to hang out with you and a some other friends a couple times.like so your not alone with him so it wont be as awkward(sp).and once you get closer to him give him your # or get his and talk to him on the fone and then ask him if he wants to hang out sometime.like alone.so then your alone and you like him and hes probably starting to like you also so just tell him how you feel.and if he rejects you then be like ok well i dont want that to change anythign with our relationship then.like let him know you still wanna b fiends.
hope i helped XoXo
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Well first I might want to try being his friend, so then you both can get to know eachother and then you can see if you still have the same feelings, and then he'll see if he has new feelings for you. And then he can feel like he can talk to you about stuff too, etc. So then if he DID reject you, you'd still be able to have a friendship which would be better than nothing. But if you don't want to be friends with him first ( but I'm just saying that might be a good idea..) well then instead of talking to him about it to his face ; which can be pretty nerve wracking, then just IM him about it or talk to him on the phone about it, or write a note, text, etc. And ask him who he likes. And then just be like," Well.. I like you. I mean I don't know how you feel but I just needed to tell you that, but if you don't, please just forget I ever said that, cause I don't want to ruin everything." ( or something like that ) and also just because he's popular doesn't mean anything. At my school, everyone just dates whoever they wanna date. Even if the one's popular and the other isn't. You just have to take a chance and not be scared of rejection cause then in your head will always be the famous," What if? "... I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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if i were you, i'd approach him first as a friend. like saying to hang out, do stuff, etc. as friends so he can get to know you better. after he gets to know you, then i'd tell him how you feel and maybe you guys can have a relationship. try not to be nervous and juss be calm and relaxed about it. don't worry about it either.
good luck!
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try being just friends with him @ first, and eventually when you get to know eachother, if he likes you back, he will make a move*
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hi,well you need to know first how to approach him.then once you do that go and think what first to say how you like him and etc.then once you get evrything organized go to the boyt he next time you see him and tell him what you need to say!:)hope my advice helped!~!!*+Kristine+*!!~
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Hmm..well..if he's conceded and he's like "oh i'm too cool to talk to you" or something like that, don't take it. But if you wanna tell him that you like him just when you're talking to him, just simply tell him that you kinda like him. The worst that could happen is that he won't like you back and if he respects you he wont go around telling everyone. Just tell him you like him on the phone i've done it before and the boy liked me too. So just try that and if you need anymore help you can just drop me somethin in my inbox :)
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Start off by talking to him more. Become friends with him. If he seems embarassed to talk to you since hes popular, forget about him. Move up by talking to him on the phone, then hang out with him, then maybe eventually you will feel comfortable telling him how you feel. Or you might have to flirt a little to show him. Who knows, maybe he will tell you he likes you before you get the chance to tell him. Just remember friends first.
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aww! well DONT tell him right away that you like him. you might scare him away.. idk guys are annoying! haha so just start to get to know him first.. just casually start talkin to him.. and as you gradually start to get to know him.. THEN tell him!! and see how it goes.. good luck im sure he'll love you = )
if you need help on approaching him leave 1 in my inbox or IM me.. because i need more information...
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If you really like this guy since you were a freshman well it's not too late.Tell your friend to at least introduce yourself to him and you will have to talk to him.You could start asking him what's his name,things he likes,and age. Act as polite as you can,also even though you don't like somethings he's interested just agree guys like girls who like things they do.It'll get you much closer to him if he does like you should take my advice.First find out if he does like you otherwise you might be wasting your time.Good luck and hope it turns out the way you want to.You could ask me for more advice anytime!
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