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my sister hates me i think.....
;; whenever i ask her to take me somewhere (she drives) shes like "no"
;; i ask her to cook me somthing (because last time i almost burnt the house down) she says no and i have to wait till about 1 im the morning for food
;; she treats me like crap
;; she always askes "do i look pretty????"
;; she slaps me
;; she called me a whore because i didnt feel well and she didnt also
;; ill get her a soda, the vacume, TRY to cook something, give her money, talk to her, get her something she needs to clean. walk the dog, feed the cat && dog && birds.. im practally the maid for when shes home.
;; she makes me clean the hallway (because i threw my books outta my room).... also HER bathroom and i have to clean her garbage she leavs at my comptuer.
;; i ask her for a simple thing "can you drive me 1 mile away from home so i can get something to eat" she automatically says NO
;; she calls me.. a bitch.. a slut.. a whore.. a faggot.. brat.. spoiled.. discusting.. etc.
;; i wanna be her friend, but i cant ever talk to her barely.
;; i always give her MY money, the money my grandma gave me for my birthday (it was a thousand dollars) she said she would pay back... now i only have about 100 left. she took 900 bucks from me, and i was saving up for a shopping spree.
;; she steals my money also.. she has a credit card, gas card, etc. but she wont use them!
please help me... i htink she hates me, is that a sign of hate? and sorry if this was too long for you
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thats a sighn of sister hood... she doesnt hate you shes your own sister it might seem like it but in her heart she loves you your just a good target for her to pick on and hit her back dont be afraid to!
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She doesn't hate you, thats just being evil. Shes taking advantage of your doing nice things for her. Its time to stop and do things that will only help yourself for a while. At this point, she doesn't deserve anything you've done for her. Where is your mom? Your dad? An adult? Because if you live with your sister, how can you live like that? Its like starving all of the time and having someone make you feel bad half of the time. And from all of the things you do for her, you don't deserve to be in that kind of situation. You need to get out of this. You can't sit and indentify what your sister thinks of you, and thats the problem, shes not thinking of you. Only herself. Stop doing things for her, don't turn into selfish, but give her a taste of what shes feeding you. Absolutely nothing.
-TheTeenGirl
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how old is your sister? i have 3 sisters myself, and i know whatcha mean. she doesnt hate you. hate is a very strong word, especially in families. hope i helped
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Ahh don't take it anymore. Before you do anything, ask her why she treats you that way. Ask what you have to do for her to treat you with respect. If she gives you a list of demands and chores and money, then refuse. Don't listen to her. Say no to her just like she says it to you. The name calling - don't let it get to you, but if it does, show no emotion and don't let her see it hurt you. The money taking - hide whatever you have left really good; when she asks for it explain how you have none left because she kept asking for it and taking it. Don't clean up after her - you don't need to; once she realizes she's living in her own filth, she'll have to do something about it, just worry about your own stuff. Don't hate your sister back, but don't let her treat you like that either. Hope that helps.
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You have to understand that this is the way of older sisters and , just naturally, sisters. It's natural for them to argue, fight, and steal from each other. But she shouldn't steal that much money with a great amount like that. I could see 20 maybe 50 but 900 dollars is unthought of. You need to tell your parents(or someone like an aunt, uncle) what she's doing b/c it's just plain worng and abusive and stop trying to talk to her. Let her come to you and show her that you do have a life.
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Get a job and move out. Well, is there anyone you can talk to in authority that you trust? There is no good reason for her to abuse you like this. You need to tell her how it makes you feel.
She hates herself. It has little to do with you. She is selfish and careless. I would put my money in a bank or a safe where she couldn't get to it. You are going to have to protect yourself and get some assistance because she is out of control.
And tell her she can clean her own stinking bathroom until she learns to share some of the responsibility of cleaning up.
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Oooh... you give her your money, she won't do favors, she calls you a whore, you're the maid... I think she has anger issues, or she just hates you. Have any family problems gone on lately? Deceased grandparent, for example? That could provoke her. Try going to a psychologist, or sitting down and talking to her. Good luck!
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