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well i recently met this guy at a party this summer and weve became really close but the thing is hes 19 and im 14...but i really like him and hes going off to college this fall and im scared that i wont see him that much and eventualy we are going to drift apart? and i havent really told him how i feel...should I??
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i think you should tell him how you feel about him. he might feel the same way. you never know until you ask. so i would tell him how you feel and then you two can work out something.
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onistly you should before he leaves... so at least he know's how u feel about him and just say i hop ethis doesnt ruwen are friend ship but... and so on
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i think you should definetly tell him how you feel.and move from there. if he says he likes you back then give him your # and be like call me when your at school and we can make plans to hang out sometime.
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Hell Yea! You dont want to tell him in a way that seems to foward! you should try to start a conversation then you guys will get to talking and eventually you will work up the nerve to tell him =! I hope i helped and if i did im glad i could!
~Allie Cat~
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I think you should tell him how your feeling inside you never know it can bring you guys closer it could be for the best
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i think you should definantly tell him how you feel before he goes away. that way you can keep a distant relationship and still have guyfriends where you live. keep in touch and when he comes back in town hang out for a while. tel him you want to be boyfriend and girlfriend and that you like him alot. he will confront you deeply.
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tell him how you feel, but don't expect a lot outta it. college guys party a lot and since you're only 14, you have pretty many years in high school yet. juss explain how you feel, but i think you should try to move on.
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hello. i think you should tell him how you feel. its not good to keep it all bottled up inside. always express your feelings. also if you always keep in contact with him you wont grow apart. use the phone use aim use emails use letters. hope i have helped. please rate
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it rally doesnt matter hes ALOT older than you and it prolly woudlnt work out and... its against the law... sorry to burst your bubble but its true
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He's probably a nice guy, but you two are in totally different stages of life right now. He is an adult, and you are still a minor. Technically, it would be illegal if you dated him and did physical things with him since he is no longer a minor, but an adult. You need to remember that hes going into college, and he can't be tied down to anyone since he is going to a whole new place full of new people. But ask for his email or soemthing, and that way you can stay in touch. (as friends)
--Johanna
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Yes, I think you should tell him how you feel so you know what kind of relationship this is for sure. So you will know exactly where you stand and how you 2 stand together. Maybe he thinks one way and you think the other way. Right now is an excellent opportunity to talk about issues or concerns that need to be talked about . So go and talk to hum. Get things straight and find out answers to all of your questions.
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No you really shouldn't. He is 19 and you are jailbait. Dating him could get him in all kinds of legal trouble. I am sure he is a good friend, but thats all it can be uintil you are of age. If you want to know what that age is in your state...see this chart. :)
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