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Me and my bf have gone out for 6 yrs.
Well one day I started to get tired of seeing him 24/7
So I told him that and I think he thought we were breaking up.
I only wanted alittle alone time
A week later I saw him with another girl
and I asked him what was going on
but he told me we broke up so he moved on.
Now im really jealous and been trying to to tell my bf I never really wanted to breakup with him I just wanted alone time and he keeps saying thats considered breaking up.
Does anyone have any advice on what I could do?
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tell him how you really feel and explain to him that all u wanted was a little time alone
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Just stop him and talk about what happen between you two just be like "look im sorry but whats going on i said i was just sick of bein around oyu forawhile and i needed to be alone... i didn tmean for us to brake up.." and just tell him how u still feel and be ike im sory i didnt tell u what was really going one
i hope i could help
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He's not worth it honey. I've been in that kind of relationship before and its not going to work out. I understand that you have dated him for six years and you probably love him very much. But if he can get over you that fast, he's just not worth it. You can try to talk to him a little more and explain to him that you weren't trying to break up, you just wanted a bit of space. I dont know if he will listen, and if he doesn't, just move on. I know its hard to see him hanging all over some other girl, and I know it hurts, but if he's that stupid to let go that fast, maybe he's just not meant for you. Theres plenty of other guys out there! Good Luck!
Melissa + Jill <3
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sit down and seriously talk with him... and tell him that you love him ((if you do)) and just explain that you were just a little stressed and were in one of those mood phases where you needed a few days to yourself... and that you meant nothing more by it... you love him and you never wanted to end it... you just needed some days to get your self together... if he doesnt understand then he totally isnt worth it!
good luck girl!
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Well you told him everything that I would say. Just tell him that you didn't mean for that to happen if you would have known it would have come to this I would have never said I need to be alone at times. And that you love him and you've loved him for 6 years and that you can't get over that anytime soon and that you need him. If he says I don't care I moved on so you should I think you should tell him straight out (tell him in a bold sound, like not yelling but not soft) you haven't moved on yet I personally think your just using this girl to get me jealous well guess what it's working! And that if he can't take you back after saying you love him I think you could do a lot better. I mean geesh if he already moved on and yall went out for 6 years damn that means he was never really there (emotionally). Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't. Ask me for more advice if you need it.:(
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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i would say just tell him how you feel go all out or ask him on a date and talk to him there. And if he doesnt understand i would move on if he doesnt care how you feel he doesnt deserve you.
hope things work out.
love jess
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ok im gonna be bruitaly honest here
he's moved on...obviously he didnt really wanna go out with you so he took the smallest excuse to get with another girl.
i say...find a new guy, look totally hott in front of your ex...and he'll want you back so bad!!!
but if you really want him back that bad, just tell him that you just wanted a few days alone, you never wanted to break up
if you were really in love, he'll understand and he should APOLOGIZE for getting with that girl so quickly after you "broke up"
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well if he started dating within a week of your breakup...he might not be as attached to you as you think or on the other hand, he might be trying to make you jealous. But talk to him and let him know you werent thinking when you said you wanted to break up & that you want to give it another try at your relationship
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well i think you should try to move on too because oviously(spelling?) he didnt have the same kind of feeling for you that you had for him if he could move on so fast.
sorry
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talk to him and tell him how you feel. it's difficult seeing someone you love with someone else and 6 years is a really long time. maybe he was hurt by the fact that you wanted some time away from him and saw it as a break up. he probably wanted to make you jealous, because i don't see why he'd want another girl already since you guys have been together for 6 years. tell him you're hurt by the fact that he thought you guys were broken up and that he's with another girl already. if you don't explain how you feel, he'll never know.
good luck!
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Sounds to me that if he can move in in a week after being with you for 6 years then he never really cared for you anyway. However, a sure fire way to get him stirred up is to grab a guy and flaunt it in front of him. Most of the time it will send them crawling back. You see, guys look at it like this.... they want to do what they want,but they want you to sit at home and cry over them. When they see you arent doing that then normally their true feelings will come flooding out.
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just sit down face to face with him and tell him exactly what you meant to happen. if he doesnt understand then its his fault..tell him you need your space..idk what else to tell you. hope i helped.
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