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I was recently torn between two guys and now i finally realized that i love my ex. Now that im back with him, we never talk and we never see each other. I love him to DEATH but i dont know what to do...Anyone know what to do?!
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We know you have five other answers other than this one, but we are going to go ahead and give you some other ideas just incase someone else has not suggested them. We have a friend that was torn badly between two guys and she sat down and made good & bad list. Divide a piece of paper in half and write "Good" in one column and "Bad" in the other column and list all the good and bad things you can think of for one of the guys you like. Then, get another sheet of paper and do the same thing for the other guy. Our friend did this and she decided to stay in her room and think really hard about it until she came to a decision. Maybe you will come to find out that you should not be with your ex and you can go for the other guy OR you can just completely find someone new. If you do not even talk to him or see him then we are sure you will be happier without a relationship. Just because you are not his "girlfriend" does not mean you cannot still love and care for him and be his friend. There is most likely someone better for you out there that will fit your schedule and that you would be able to talk to and see more. However, if you really love your current boyfriend and do not want to leave him then definitely talk to him about how you feel if you have not already. Then try your best to hang out with him and call him whenever you can so that you can do your part to make the relationship work. Remember though...it takes two to make a relationship work so if he is not trying his best to keep yall together then its time to move on to someone cuter and better! =) goodluck
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well i think that you should ask him to make time to see you and hang out. If that doesn't work then maybe it wasn't ment to be. I know if that was my boyfriend, i would ask him right off the bat if he wanted to hang out! but yah hope i helped! <3 Amanda
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When you talk to him next, make plans that involve meeting up with him and spending time with him. Also, tell him that you want to spend more time with him in person and talking on the phone or internet.
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you should try to work things out. tell him you really like him and you want things to work. ask him why he's not acting like he doesnt want to be with you. if he really likes you he would try to work it out too. hoped i helped!!!
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Talk to him.. thats what you should do.. or forget him what kinda of guy wont talk or see his girlfriend.. are you sure your together...? ♥ Dez
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Maybe try seeing him more and call him
If theres no way you can communitcate dump him there can't be a relationship and choose the other guy thats loves you more
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