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still considered a virgin or not?
i think i just made one of the biggest mistakes of my life. me and my best guy friend have always had a friends-with-benifits relationship. he was fingering me today and ended up sticking his penis in me. we were going for a little, but we had to stop because he had to leave. he didn't get to cum and we did full out have sex. but knowing that his penis was in me... is that enough to count for losing my virginity?
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well obviouslii hisz diqk went in ya soo yea
u r no lonqer a virqin ma'am
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well i think it deos bcuz you said you guys stoped bcuz he had to leave. so if didnt have to leave you guys would of continued. n he did put his dick in you so pretty much you lost your virginity.
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Well, he wasnt all the way in you but sorry.. you're not a virgin anymore.
If you were nervous you should have definitely told him no.. with anybody. Even if he was your boyfriend and you're not comfortable with it you STILL have the right to tell him no.
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Sadly, yes. When a guys penis actually goes inside you it is considered losing your virginity. Even if he didnt cum. If your having bad feelings about this, you should talk to him about your feelings. & ask if he thinks it was a mistake, or maybe he can help you deal with the doubts, regrets or whatever other concerns you have.
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I'm sorry to say but you are no longer a virgin. I have a relationship similiar to yours, but you have to know your boundries. I'm more worried about whether or not you used protection. If you guys didn't, I think you should go to the doctors as soon as you can. You also need to talk to your friend about boundries and whatnot. Remember it may feel good, but it's your sefl-esteem and dignity on the line.
MAD Love,
Victoria
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Penetration=loss of virginity
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Yes if his penis was inside of you then yes you are no longer a virgin..need anything just ask*
♥ Caitlin
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yes, this counts as losing your virginty because you were having sex..your cherry probably popped. it doesnt matter that he didnt cum. so i hope this cleared up any confusion?
-meliss
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Since his penis was inside you, you are no longer a virgin. It doesn't matter if netiher of you finished.
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Yes, just because he didnt finish doesnt mean that you are still a virgin. If you guys had intercourse, it will consider you a non-virgin. Just make sure that next time you are protected.. if not then it may REALLY be the biggest mistake of your life.
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duhh, of course.. Once you have "full out sex" I think you pretty much lose your virginity..
jess ♥
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yeah.. i'm pretty sure you lost your virginity. ♥ Brittany
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Yes your not a virgin.. ♥ Dez
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YES you are no longer a virgin.
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According to the most common definition of "virgin", you're not one any more. Actually, under almost ANY definition of "virgin", you're not one.
But that doesn't change who you are. It doesn't make you a different person, unless you WANT to be. It doesn't mean you're a slut, or anything like that, unless you decide that's what it means.
Remember, "virgin" is just a word. It's not YOU. Don't let worrying about it throw a shadow over your life. It's not worth it. Put it behind you and just be yourself. That's all that matters.
I will say, though, that if your friend is putting his penis inside you, you REALLY need to be practicing safe sex. Even if he didn't ejaculate, sperm were almost certainly coming out of him - and they COULD make you pregnant. So you need to use condoms (and read the instructions to make sure that you're using them *correctly*). It would also be a good idea to talk to your OB/GYN about your birth control options.
I suspect that you're under 18, so I'll also take the liberty of saying that in my experience, it's a really bad idea for underage people - boys OR girls - to have sex. It's much smarter to wait until you know you're really ready, as I think you just found out. Otherwise you can end up with a lot of regrets.
There are lots of other reasons to wait until you're really ready. But rather than repeat them all here, I'll let you read them on my column, if you want.
You're still the same person you were before you had sex. Don't beat yourself up over it.
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Yeah. Your not a virgin anymore.
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yah that counts as losing your virginity.but it doesnt have to be a mistake.hope i helped XoXo
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yes you lost your virginity but thats normal
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yes, you have lost your virginity. And i dont think it is a big mistake.
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Yes, why is that a big mistake? Did you want to lose it with your first love or your only love.<<-- That's how I wanted to be as well. You shouldn't worry about it. Hope I helped. ♥
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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yes, insertion of the penis does count for losing your virginity
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this MIGHT help you feel better but it might not. being a "virgin" doesnt really have a true definition cause you can think of it in many ways. it depends on your beliefs. some people think any sexual contact is losing your virginity while others say its when you have full sex and EVERYTHING happens. theres different sites you can look up on google for more information.
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Do you think lesbians are virgins because they haven't had sex with a guy? No.
You had sex. You are no longer a virgin.
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