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ok I know I know I am totally screwed probably and I know I messed up big time but please dont tell me that over and ove...but ok I was raped last week and I didnt tell anyone yet...I cant im scared i dont now why but i feel like its my fault cuz it was my bf and Im the one who went out with him...so ya i know im screwed cuz the evidence is probably gone but I really need help on how to tell someone so thats why I came here..plz help!!
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tHIS GUY HAS COMMITED A SERIOUS CRIME AND YOU NEED TO MAYBE TELL HIM THAT IT IS OVA AND THAT YOU WILL BE REPORTING HIM TO THE POLICE AND THEN DO EXACLY THAT AND TELL YOUR PARENTS SO THAT IF THE POLICE CALL THEY WILL NOT FLIP THERE LID
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Wow, i'm very sorry to hear that. But the best thing to do, is to tell someone. And yeah, he was you're boyfriend, but still, he RAPED you. And that cant always be stopped, so its NOT you're fault, cuz maybe you couldnt have done anything bout it. It's going to be hard to tell someone, but the sooner you do, the better you'll feel. If you're uncomfortable telling someone you know, go to a counsler perhaps, or tell one of you're best friends && maybe they can help you from there. Good LUkc with this, and remember its not you're fault. And remember if you dont do something, theres a good chance he'll do it again, maybe not to you, but to some other girl. And you know how it feels.. dont let someone go thru the same pain, if you can stop it. =) good luck. hope i helped.
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Tell someone you trust. Your mom, dad, older sister or brother, etc.
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sweety its definatly not your fault! tell someone u can really trust. and dont go near him and if u do just ask him y because thats just sick....ok well yea i hope i helped
peace
LiAx3
and some people are just bitches who answered this question and said some stupid shit 2 make them seem kool but really its not.damn...dont pay attention 2 them!!
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oh wow, I don't know what to tell you, but for sure it is def. not your fault, if you un-willingly was forced to have sex with him it is not your fault. Even though you went out with him, doesn't mean you Agreed to have sex with him. Tell someone who is a trusted adult and that can help you. Take care
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Tell someone especially ur parents.....brake up with him he's not worth anything if he's gonna do that to you
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You need to tell someone. End of story. You need to get help. And fast. Do NOT wait. If you wait, you can't do a thing about it.
good luck hun.
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Ok you need to tell your parents. Just say "Mom, *boyfriend's name* raped me last week. What should I do?" It's not your fault that it was your boyfriend and you went out with him...you didn't see it coming, right? It's true that the evidence is probably gone...but you could be pregnant and have an STD. you might even have AIDS! You absolutely should see a gynecologist and have a pelvic check. Cuz some STD's like gonorrhoea and clymydia are easily curable...if you do something about it quickly. AIDS is not!
Hang in there, babe!
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you didnt mess up, and its not your fault. it is not your fault that your boyfriend made you have sex with him. you do not deserve this. most girls who are raped don't tell anyone, but you dont understand, you have to. who is the person you can talk to anything about? just tell them you need to talk to them. and then straight out say I was raped. this guy needs to go to jail. you can be saving so many other girls who could get raped by him by going to the police. good luck, and please tell somebody
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hey. just because you went out with him doesnt mean that it's not your fault. if you tried your best to stop it, then you shouldnt blame yourself for something that he did. you shouldnt care if the evidence is gone or not, just tell someone that you trust and that will be able to make you feel better and that will be able to help you figure out what to do. tell someone that you know might not freak out, so that you won t freak out either. you could also find those groups where you can stay anonymous and counselors can help you get through this. if you need to talk more about this, drop a message in my inbox and i'll be happy to talk to you. peace and love
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Okay first off you didnt screw up. You were probably just scared to tell anyone that you got raped because i know that i would be wicked scared if that happened to me. You should deffiantly tell someone, a counsler, friend, or parent. Its not your fault that you went out with him and all the evidence may not be gone. Just simply say "I got raped." Its going to be hard but you need to speak up because getting raped is a serious matter and if you dont say anything he may do it again. Hope i helped. <3 Amanda
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Sya " i was raped"
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yeah, you definitely need to tell someone about what happened. dont think its your fault, believe me, because its not. when i was 14, my boyfriend at the time raped me, and took my virginity. i know exactly how you feel.. and i blamed myself as well.. but i went to counceling and realized it wasnt my fault. please tell your parents, theyll know what to do. its going to be hard telling them, but its better than keeping it in. i hope the best for you.
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The last thing you need to hear is you screwed up - cuz you didn't. When something like that happens it sometimes take a while to process that it was actually raped because when it's not all violent and crazy and then with someone you know - you start to question yourself. Well, don't go there - you know what happened and that's all that mattered. Maybe you can't talk to your mom -call the rape crisis center. Getting raped is a very traumatic thing that needs to be addressed. Even though you don't have the evidence, you do know who did it. Have you talked to him since? I think you need to call and talk to someone or tell your parents. They won't be mad - they will still love you and want to help. You need all the support you can get right now. Let it out honey, tell someone!!
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