This is my advice column. My name is Shelby. I am a young advice giver. Welcome to my site. Please fill free to ask as many questions as you would like. I'll be sure to get back to you. Thanks and ENJOY!
ShelbzAdvice92
Member Since: August 9, 2004
Answers: 5
Last Update: August 10, 2004
Visitors: 667
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I might be suicidal. i dont know but i do think about killling myself a lot
so i guess i am... so someone help... and actually help! (link)
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Suicid IS A BIG ISSUE for kids/teens in america. I know alot of people have told you, ''That doesnt make the pain go away it makes it worse!'' They are right. Take your pain on something other then...cutting, wanting to kill yourself, or even taking pills. It wont help you get better. I know i may not be helping, but i can't tell you what to do. I'm only giving you ideas. Heres some-
Talk to a concler, trusted grownup, friends and even parents.
Get a stress ball
Jog, run, play a sport to get your mind off this.
GET HELP!
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Ok, I have like anxiety problems, everytime something big comes up i have panic attacks. Whether it is the first day of school, or registration. Please help me cuz it is takin over my life! (link)
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Alrighty, Just remember that nothing bad will happen. Take things slow and try not to JUMP AROUND, LAUGH or run around to much when something big happens. Just take it easy and take it slow. Don't worry to much. Hope i helped and good luck!
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Ok this might sound so waird but....All my friends have done weed that i basically know or wanna try it theyre not pushing me into it but i wanna try it to like REALLY badly but i have second thoughts all the time like what if my parents found out and i dont wanna be llike that i wanna be a good kid well atleast i try to i dont know what to do!!!! (link)
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If all your friends jumped off a bridge would you? I know this sounds childish. I know you want to, but just remember that, drugs can harm you and even kill you. Some of your friends think its fun, and nothing will happen. But thats not true. Think about what could happen to you or your friends. I can't tell you what to do. I'm not your mom. If i were you..i would talk to your friends about it and how it's making you feel.
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ok i just started high school a few days ago and its really hard to make friends b/c they all pretty much came from all the same schools and everyone already has friends and groups already and i dont... ive met some ppl but we arent like close or anything so what should i do (link)
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Okay, sounds to me like your too shy. Go and go talk to people. Otherwise, no one will notice you. Talk/flirt..get to know people. That way, you can get more friends and fit in.
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im 14 years old i havent had my first kiss yet or a b/f yet and im starting to fell like im to fat and ugly and ill never find anyone what should i do about this? (link)
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Listen, It's not because your to ugly/fat. It's probably because your TOO SHY. Get out there, talk to guys and don't be shy. Guys do not like shy girls. Be active. You will get a guy in no time.
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