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feeling werid
im 14 years old i havent had my first kiss yet or a b/f yet and im starting to fell like im to fat and ugly and ill never find anyone what should i do about this?
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Smile and feel happy about being u. Its the best thing u can do for urself. Rushing into things can make erything worse. Ur first kiss will more than likely be special if u wait for that right person. The time will come when its what should happen. Im sure ur a pretty person. Dont say nething bad to bring urself down. Promise me that kay?!? Your wonderful. BoYs ArE gReAt but u derserve the best....so be picky!!! If u havent yet try to flirt more its fun once u get the hang of it. Just dont lead guys on okie dokie. Dont feel weird cuz when u get ur first kiss ur going to remember it for the rest of ur life. ((that is if u want it to be special)) xOxO* Shannon
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rushing into things like that is the worst thing that you can do. i did it and i totally regret it. and i bet you're not either of those things you said about yourself. i thought the same thing til a guy said he go out with me. unfortunantly i went out with the wrong guy. having a b/f isn't the most important thing in the world. it may seem like it because everyone supposedly has one. they aren't what they're cracked up to be. just be patient and wait for a feeling about a certain guy that you meet. if you get a feeling, start hanging around the guy more. see what happens.
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your not fat or ugly! your beautiful on the inside! don't worry about the age of getting your first kiss! the first time should be special and that day you remember forever (and the person you remember forever) age is nothing but a number! so please don't lower your self-esteem just cause you havent had your first kiss yet! your perfectly normal!
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awwww sweetie don't worry i'm sure your beautiful. theres nothing wrong with that i mean i didn't get my first kiss till i was 15. Anyways it's better to wait for your first kiss so it's special. i'm glad i did. i had chances before then but i always gave them the cheek and it would piss them off but i didn't care. theres nothing wrong with you and you shouldn't feel bad. don't worry it'll happen for u when u least expect it. just keep your head up!
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dont down yuorself if u havent found a guy then u havent found someone to make u feel alot better and u shouldnt think yur fat and ugly just becaz of boys just be yurself
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well..you shouldnt ever look at your self that way. (this is a true story) ok well at the beginning of 10th grade my sister starting feeling fat and ugly.. and like no one would like her because of that.. but then one guy came along (her best friends ex-boyfriend)that she liked and (well it a long story) and he said that he likes her but she is too insecure about herself (insecure means: like not confident in herself) and he finds that very unattractive!!!! he said that if she wasnt so insecure that he might have actually gone out with her... and she is 16 and still hasnt had her first kiss yet... so trust me dont think of yourself like that and keep your dreams and hopes high.... more people will find you attractive that way!!
xoxo much love,
crystal
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omg if you feel bad, then i should feel like dirt! lol cuz i'm 17 and have the same problem...it embarasses me in some ways, but i never lie about it, and i'm obviously not too embarassed to share the info with everyone on advicenators haha...i kno how you feel tho, does it seem like you just never find someone?? and everybody else does?? i look at it this way - i kno for a fact i could've kissed someone or had a bf (girls CONTROL guys, it's a fact haha) but it never felt right...don't worry, 14 is not old at all!!! last year, i knew like 5 ppl who hadn't been kissed at the age of 16...you are not alone! haha hope i helped xoxoxxxx (the extra x's are to make up for the kisses you have yet to get haha)
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I didn't get my first kiss until I was 15 years old and a freshman in high school. Believe me, the wait is worth it.
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well when i was 14, i didnt have a "real" kiss either.. dont ever think youre ugly or whatever just for that reason. dont rush into anything, its fine that you havent kissed yet. atleast youre not a whore like those other grls, who have had their first kiss at like 9, and is already having sex and everything at 14.
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im sure at least once in your life you will get kissed and have a boyfriend.. just give it time.. im sure your not fat and ugly! =D
-xxoBrianna
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Listen, It's not because your to ugly/fat. It's probably because your TOO SHY. Get out there, talk to guys and don't be shy. Guys do not like shy girls. Be active. You will get a guy in no time.
ShelbzAdvice92
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You're not weird. I'm 15 and haven't been kissed or had a boyfriend. You aren't fat or ugly and you will find someone- you just have to be patient. Wait for someone worthy of your time. Make sure that you build up your self-esteem and self-respect before you even consider going out with somebody. And don't look at all the teen magazines. Those magazines paint a picture that says everyone is always dating and always have been. It's not true. Ask around, a lot of people you think are always dating aren't. Trust me, you aren't alone.
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It's probly because your not to fat or ugly. For one your first Kiss should be with someone very special to you..it's something kinda important. Maybe your just not ready for a boyfriend yet. I have friends that are 16 and they are really pretty and haven't even had a boyfriend yet. Just spend your time with your friends, because there way more important then a guy anyways.
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well, firstly, just because you havent had a boyfriend or had your first kiss yet definetly doesnt mean youre fat or ugly. you should wait for a boy you like and have feelings for. i know so many people who havent experienced those things either. so try to find what you like about yourself, maybe try to focus on those things instead of the fact that youve never had a boyfriend.
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hey im 14 and i havnt hooked up with a guy either..somi have had e boyfriends but still none were long term relationships or anything...even though many guys lyk the girls who look pretty on the outside....and sorta use the less pretty girls as a "back up"....they shouldnt! if u have a friend thats a girl and she has a friend thats a guy...you should get to kno that guy...if a nice,responsible and reasonable guy got to kno you im sure they would lyk you! remember, all guys dont judge girls by looks, its by whats inside ur heart that counts! if ur a nice funny and cool person then a good guy well definitly lyk you...just dont be scared to approach guys, have confidence in yourself!...theres a guy out there for you somewhere...you just need to find him!
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Your day will come. IM just like you. Havent had a bf or havent been kissed. i know how you feel. Just wait, someday your prince charming will come and sweep you off your feet.. ^_^
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To tell you the truth, everyone does things at their own pace. You don't have to rush and do things just because other people do. You should only kiss someone if you mean it, and your ready. You shouldn't feel fat or ugly, you are doing the right thing, taking your time and finding the one person for that special moment that you will remember for the rest of your life! oxJax
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I didnt get my first kiss or my first boyfriend until i was nearly 17. I felt completely worthless and unwanted because it seemed that i would never get a boyfriend..but things eventually looked up. Instead of dwelling on not having a boyfriend..start doing things that will benefit you. If you feel fat and ugly..work on it. Once you get much needed confidence..boys will be all over you. If a guy knows you are insecure about yourself..its less likely he will approach you. Good luck with the men!
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I'm sure you are beautiful just the way you are and I'm sure it's not you. First kisses can come at anytime. It just happens to some people before others. I have a few friends that are older than you, and they still haven't had there first kiss either. Don't sweat it, you still have time. It will happen, I promise. - Fallin2pieces
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Don't worry, everyone has someone out there, you'll find your guy eventually, it takes time, don't let it bring you down, you'll find him and you'll know he's the one :-)
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if you're not confident, you will never find someone. you have to like yourself b4 some can like you, and you have to love yourself b4 someone can love you. and just cuz you're 14 and you havnt kissed a guy or had a bf doesnt mean you are a loser. everything happened at its own time. dont owrry about what other people are doing. when you find someone it will be special.
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