he cant make up his mind and i dont know who to believe!
Question Posted Monday August 9 2004, 12:44 am
ive liked this one guy for awhile now.. and hes always telling people he hates me and stuff and when i ask him about it he says it isnt true. the other day i told him to be honest.. and if he didnt like me as a friend to just tell me so ill be better off.. but he told me he still likes me n stuff .. i was thinking he might just be saying it to get me to be on His Side of this fight thats going on but im not sure. During the school year he liked me but was embarassed to ask me out b/c of what his friends would say. is that maybe why he tells people he hates me but tells me he doesnt? im so confused!
sLoShIn2SwEeTiE answered Monday August 9 2004, 10:53 pm: so he's scared of what his friends thinks and oveously u came up in there convo and if his friends say he said it then id belive them if he cant ask you out because of his friends thats sad i mean come on i know a guy that sumtimes get crap before people meet his girlfriend cause she prepy and hes punk but when the see her and get to know here they like her and shes so cool to them so if he wont stand up to his friends for you then just be his friend and dont let him lie to u [ sLoShIn2SwEeTiE's advice column | Ask sLoShIn2SwEeTiE A Question ]
TheNextRingo answered Monday August 9 2004, 10:11 pm: I think that you should just stay friends with him, if you still are now? But I wouldn't go out with someone like that though. I'm sure you'll find a guy who won't be embarissed to be seen with you. Good Luck! [ TheNextRingo's advice column | Ask TheNextRingo A Question ]
aTrEzZ246 answered Monday August 9 2004, 9:22 pm: HES A LOSER!! if he can't tell people that he likes you then...whats the point I mean he tells you but then that means he would prolly be ashamed to go out with you [ aTrEzZ246's advice column | Ask aTrEzZ246 A Question ]
ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Monday August 9 2004, 5:53 am: Sounds like this guy is a little too wishy-washy for his own good!!You need to confront him and tell him "Look,you need to be straight with me.Do you like me or not,because I'm not gonna sit around and wait for you for the rest of my life.I'm not gonna wait for nothing!!So is there something worth waiting for?" If this guy is "embarassed" to ask you out for ANY reason,much less his friends,then he's probably not the kind of guy you wanna be with anyway.You want a guy who will treat you good,respect you,and be proud to be with you!!You don't deserve any less than that!! ;) [ ShOrTnSwEeT42094's advice column | Ask ShOrTnSwEeT42094 A Question ]
Geenie_Baby answered Monday August 9 2004, 1:23 am: what a jerk...guys can b very confusing but it jus seems this guy doesnt knoe what he wants an keeps tryin ta make up his mind...ya dont need him...two-faced ppl lyke that...you cant relly trust'em hope i helped...xOxO [ Geenie_Baby's advice column | Ask Geenie_Baby A Question ]
lnknprkbabe answered Monday August 9 2004, 1:13 am: hey, well i have had one of these before. Well, i think he does like you and he is just to embarassed to say any thing to you. I bet your a pretty girl and his friends are prolly just jealous cuz he really likes someone, like you, and hes just going along with what they are saying because he doesnt want to be on a bad note with his friends or possibly loose his friends..I think you should just walk staright up to him while his friends are around and ask him that same question that you asked him before and see what he says.And if he says no i dont like you around his friends then hes just not the one and if he says yes then he probably is..good luck....
Sincerly,
Lnknprkbabe [ lnknprkbabe's advice column | Ask lnknprkbabe A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Monday August 9 2004, 12:57 am: hes an ass hole.. even if he does like you.. why would he tell his friends that shit.. you dont need him!!
CheLLe_911 answered Monday August 9 2004, 12:52 am: Alright ..this guy seems like a total jerk. I've known plent of guys like him and they arent worth your time. If he is doing this now then it can only get wrose as time progresses. Im sure you can find someon who is honest and likes you for you and not what his friends think. I say... keep lookin! [ CheLLe_911's advice column | Ask CheLLe_911 A Question ]
Chriso61o answered Monday August 9 2004, 12:51 am: if hes being two faced like that and isnt proud to talk to you or is embarssed to be accoiated with you than hes a dick..thats really immature and he needs to grow up and stop acting like it matters what people think [ Chriso61o's advice column | Ask Chriso61o A Question ]
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