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what should i do?
hey im 13 nd me nd my boy friend recently spilt but i still like him nd i just found out that he still likes me to but i dont no wat to do cuz my best (guy) friend likes me now nd my ex nd him are really great friends nd they both asked me out tonite nd i said i have to think about it to both of them wat do i do!! thanks in advance!
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Okay .well the thing i would is just give it some time let them think things over ..tell them both that you dont wanna brake there friendship..ut if its okay and then dont care who ever you date then just try to see who you realy truley love..just follow your instinks be yourself...dont worry about them..jus give them 2 time to think and see if they are really ready for this..i just dont want you to get hurt or them..some guys seem nice t 1st but in the end they change so think really hrd abut this who do you truley love...hope i helped...if ya need me box me in..
tasha take care
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i think taht you just need to be friends with both of them ad everythign there are so many more guys out there and your only 13 sweetie i think that you can easly move on and everything
-Cass-
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Yeah I say not to get with either of them. I mean yes you like them but if you chose 1 then the other would get hurt and you could risk messing up a relationship. So if you say no to both of them then no one would get hurt as badly and your only 13 you have plenty of time for guys. I bet another guy you might like more will come along.
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...dont get wit either of them... ur only 13 u have plenty of time to date... rite now just enjoy being friends wit guys... that way you'll have more experience as to the way guys think... they'll tell u more about themselves since ur not their girl... there r a lotta things guys would never tell their girls but would tell their lady friends... learn that kinda stuff and wait a couple of years for a special person to come along... when that person does come along u wont have to think twice if u should pick him... or sum1 cuter or richer or whatever...
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Well,you do just what you said,you think about it.Weigh your options.Think of which guy you are most comfrotable around,which guy treats you the best,which one makes you laugh the most,which one is the most fun to be with,which one do you have more in common with,etc.Then you give them their answers as gently as possible.Make it clear that you don't want to come between their friendship,and you really care for each of them,but that you've made your decision and you hope that they can respect that.Best of luck hunnie!! Just follow your heart!!
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follow your heart.. its not good to date your best guy friend.. lol but if you really like him then go for him but on the other hand, if you like your ex more than go for him.. youll know when you like someone more then the other person.. sorry if i dont make sense im really tired and its like 5:09 in the morning.. good luck!!
-xxoBrianna
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Do what you feel is right. If you go out with your ex boyfriend's friend though, I'm warning you that it could start some trouble between the two. But, all i can really say is decide who you like more. If you miss your ex boyfriend a lot then go with him. Who knows maybe things will work out the second time around.If you want to try something new, pick his friend. Do what you think will be best for you. But, know that you might not get another chance with your ex boyfriend if things don't work out with his friend. Good Luck ~*CaSSiE*~
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My advice is since you said you RECENTLY broke up, I think you should stay single for a while and enjoy life that way. And you can also figure out for yourself (without any rush) which boy you want to be with more and who makes you happier.
I hope this helped. Send me one if you need anything else.
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Well it's haRd foR me to even tell you if it's a good idea to even get back with youR ex, since I don't know why it ended. Since theRe is someone else who happens to like you, I'd give it a tRy with them, befoRe/if you decide to get back with youR ex boyfRiend. HoweveR, since they ARE fRiends... make shoRe it won't cause a fight theRe... that wouldn't be good, and ultimately not woRth it! I wish you the best! Hope I helped! Thanks foR the question; feel fRee to stop by again! =D
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