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Too Shy
Male 15
Theres this girl at skool right and i realy like her but im to shy i first step to a relationship is friendship but im just way to shy and neva now wat to say its like my mind goes blank around her. Wat should i do?
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oh, and when you are with a great girl,who likes you for you! then everything should be fine, and there should be no problem with your mind going blank, its just because you are nervous, but when you have a girl, it will be fine, if she is a good one!
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treat her as a friend, like any of ur friends that u dont like that way! but always be nice to her and show her ur sence of humor, girls love to laugh! dont be pushy and always be respectful! if u have those traits and u show her them then there should be no problems! good luck
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i know its hard not to be shy cause i used to be and i still am a lil but i mostly got over it so u should try workin on not bein shy and if u really like her u will find a way...and when yall start to be friends drop lil hints that u like her ... and see if she drops hints too cause you never know she mite be like u ...to shy to talk to u cause she mite like u too! good luck!
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practice what to say beforehand. or talk on the computer or on the phne. good luck!! send me something if you need more help or advice.
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Just think of a simple question to ask her and go from there. I can understand that u are shy but its cool she probably knows that. Just strike up a convorsation and drop some hints that u like her.
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okay well i think that you should write out what your going to say... (i know it sounds stupid) and rehearse it... untill you have it memorized and then when your talking ot her just pretend its a different person that you ARE comfortable with... hope i helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box : )
Kati
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I know how hard this is trust me. Well I think you should just walk up to her and say Hi and strike up a conversation about anything.
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You are probably looking for a guy's opinion idk but i'm a girl. I know one thing about girls they don't like shy guys. They want you to come up to them and say hi. You don't have to ask her out just go up to her and say hi. It's okay if you are a little embarressed but never let little things like that get in the way of what you want. Good luck.
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I say, a good conversation always starts out with a "hello." I don't think you should plan out what you want to say or anything, because usually the words you plan on saying automatically delete when you start talking anyways. Be yourself. Its alright to be nervous to talk to this girl, its normal. Just start off the conversation and if she is interested, she will add more to it.
Good Luck.
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Don't worry about being shy. If ur too see if u n this girl u like could hang out w/ one of ur friends n one of her friends. Mayb u'll feel comfortabler w/ one of ur friends there. Good luck w/ his girl...IM me n tell me wha happens!!!
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oh don't worry about being shy. just talk to her casually whether its about sports, school or you could talk to her in a big group of friends. if your mind goes blank around her then try being in a group of people when talking to her, that way it's not one on one and you won't be so nervous. and also, RELAX! haha. so like i said, take it slow, talk, and relax a bit, you should end up being friends. mabye ask her to a sporting event with you, like a football game be like "are you going to the game on friday...cool, we should hang out sometime" or something like that to show her your a bit interested.
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Aright well try writin her a note or talkin ova the computer so she wont know if your nervous =] lol or you could ask a good friend of yours to set you guys up so u meet somewhea, and it seems coincidence.. justa suggestion =D
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Always make her laugh by sayin funny things and just be yourself. Just start a conversation and then you can get to know her better! Hope I helped!
<3 Karen
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Try e-mail or talk online that way you can think over what u wanna say.
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