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i like this guy...but i have a bf n everytime i talk to this dude i feel so guilty...im so confused on what to do..should i tell this guy to go away...or what? cuz i love mah bf so much yet this guy gives me the attention i need at times when my bf dont? PLZ HELP!
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You can always be frieds with this guy and everything just dont take it to another level with im and everything i know what you mean with the more attention thing but trust me its not worth losing your bf over stay with him just be friends with the other guy!
Cassi
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The worst thing you can do is tell him to go away. That's not nice. I'm actually in a similar situation at the moment as well. All I can tell you is to just wait and see what happens. Things will eventually come together. If you like this other be sure that, if you decide you're going to break up with your boyfreind for him, this guy is acutally worth it and really likes you, too because everything can back fire.
-Fallin2Pieces
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try and just be friends with the kid! you can still get the attention by hangingout with him, and you can still have your boyfriend, too.
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Any attention is soooo flattering but don't do anything you wouldn't want your partner to do. I don’t think talking to another guy is so bad but if you feel guilty then maybe its best to stop. If you truly love your boyfriend then this problem shouldn't be so terribly confusing. Just remain plutonic with the new guy and you will soon see he isn’t as exciting and stimulating as he may seem. Once you see him as a regular guy (not just the guy you last after) it will be easier to comprehend your feelings for each guy. Like you love your boyfriend but would never cheat and the new guy is just and ego booster and fun to hang around, but not worth the risk. I mean you may find you later that you want a change but wait on it because the new guy still probably has the mysterious factor going on and that needs to wear off first. Ok, back to the beginning again; don’t do anything you feel guilty about! Talk but not about things you wouldn’t want your boyfriend taking about with another girl. You will talk to plenty of people through out your relationship how YOU handle it decides how you relationship will continue. If you crush on another guy it means you are not devoting all your admiration on your boyfriend, which leaves him open to crush on other too. Be sure not to neglect him!
Make sense? I don’t know.
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Tell the other guy that you just wanna be friends for now. But if your feelings for this guy get stronger i would go out with him. what ever you do don't cheat on your bf!!
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Ok I was in the same problem before this is what I did I had a BF and this guy who liked me alot.Why don't you ask to have a date with him the guy you don't go out with and see what he has to offer,and how he is right for you would he listen to what you say and will he do things for you that your BF won't.Then ask your BF if he would go somewhere with you keep it simple as just in the park and ask him some questions that you asked the guy that like you and see how much you are in love then. Make sure it is to your likeing some of them are a pain and say the uncorret thing. Or just pick the one who is bettter looking or follow your heart
PEACE NAQUIA
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What you need to do is write down or figure out who you like more, your boyfriend or this other guy and who you want to be with more...? that is the only thing to it and probably the only way.
-Katie
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I believe that you can like any one you want even if you have a boyfriend, hun. I have a boyfriend now but I still like my ex-boyfriend a lot. But, I told my boyfriend now and he trusts me completely about it! Tell your boyfriend if he doesnt trust youm, I guess you weren't meant to be with a guy who doesnt trust you! I hope I helped, hun!
*suzie
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The thing you have to do is really figure out who you like...like and love are two majorly different things. You say you love your boyfreind but you like this guy. Love kinda overpowers and you have to be loyal to your boyfriend. So either tell the other guy like..hey I have a boyfreind you know...or...go for him.
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