im 13 and i really like this kid and he is 15 i told him how i feel and he said he likes me to but we live a hour away we could neva go out [ so he said ], but sometimes he seems like he really likes me then other times it seems like he is to busy that he has no time for me but then i know he has alot of girls as friends and i don't know if he likes them and i know is jealously but it tru and i don't know wat to do u think i should just try to get him off my mined[ it would be so hard if i did but i could try ].. or wat ? .. PLEASE HELP !
I think you should hold out until you can find someone who really seems to like you all the time. Someone who will never seem too busy for you. I know you probably don't want to hear this but you are young and this crush will pass soon someone will be jealous about you and want your attention. It almost seems like he just wants you to crush on him and likes that he has controol over that. Also and hour away is along time for a 13 year old because you can't drive and probably don't have many friends that will be able to take you. So maybe wait about 2 or 3 year (I know it sound like a life time) and then try to rekindle how you feel. In about that time you both will know exactly what you want out of a relationship and each other so it should be better; but untill then try not to think about him because he obviously isn't worth your cruching otherwise he would be trying as hard for you as you are for him. Any help?
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ok well i like this person and this person likes me too but befor we admitted it we where good friends and we still are..and if this person is gonna ask me out i wanna say yes but what if we brake up i dont whant us to loose our freindship...so should i say yes?what should i do?help!ill rate you for this!
I think if you are already thinking about what might happen if you break up then you really shouldn’t get your self into it, you shouldn’t risk your friendship on something you are so unsure of. I am living proof that friends can date. I was friends with a guy for about a year and then we started going out. We have been dating for 5 years now. It is great we can never go back to exactly they way we were but this is a million time better. It is like having a friend, a best friend, and a boyfriend all wrapped up in one. If you can seriously see your self breaking up already then I would recommend just leave thing where they are because as much as you both say you could always go back to be just friends that is impossible. He will know you inside out and you will know him. If you are willing to risk it all then DO IT. I feel the best relationships start as friends you just have to get rid of that safe-zone of a friendship and leap into dating. It will be scary and your other friends really won’t make kit any easier at all but it you do it right it can be a blast.
Trust Me!
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Be and my best friend are soo tight..we do EVERYTHING together. and whats even better is that our boyfriends are best friends too. The 4 of us do everything together! but now whenever im with my friend when her bf isn't around thats all she talks about is him even on the phone! it gets on my nerves soo bad! should i say somthing to her or just let her talk about him?
It’ll pass. I Promise. It is just a phase you guys are going through. She talks about him so much because he is a super big part of her life. She probably talks about you to him, even though it may not seem like it. Be careful that you aren’t jealous of her talking about him all the time because that can ruin a friendship by making her choose boyfriend or best friend. Just kinda wait it out soon you will find out it may not be as bad as it seems. When something bothers a person that is all they can focus on. Like your bother blaring the stereo when you are trying to sleep, even if he turns it down that is all you notice, but if you ignore it you will fall asleep sooner or later. Focus on the other stuff she talks about and steer your conversations away from him. I would not recommend asking her to stop constantly bringing him up because he may be offended or be willing to fight about him. This may seem dumb, but she will find something else new and exciting to talk about soon.
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i like this guy...but i have a bf n everytime i talk to this dude i feel so guilty...im so confused on what to do..should i tell this guy to go away...or what? cuz i love mah bf so much yet this guy gives me the attention i need at times when my bf dont? PLZ HELP!
Any attention is soooo flattering but don't do anything you wouldn't want your partner to do. I don’t think talking to another guy is so bad but if you feel guilty then maybe its best to stop. If you truly love your boyfriend then this problem shouldn't be so terribly confusing. Just remain plutonic with the new guy and you will soon see he isn’t as exciting and stimulating as he may seem. Once you see him as a regular guy (not just the guy you last after) it will be easier to comprehend your feelings for each guy. Like you love your boyfriend but would never cheat and the new guy is just and ego booster and fun to hang around, but not worth the risk. I mean you may find you later that you want a change but wait on it because the new guy still probably has the mysterious factor going on and that needs to wear off first. Ok, back to the beginning again; don’t do anything you feel guilty about! Talk but not about things you wouldn’t want your boyfriend taking about with another girl. You will talk to plenty of people through out your relationship how YOU handle it decides how you relationship will continue. If you crush on another guy it means you are not devoting all your admiration on your boyfriend, which leaves him open to crush on other too. Be sure not to neglect him!
Make sense? I don’t know.
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I need a new screenname... but i dont want anything to bouncy... alot of itmes my screen names are kinda depressing... my screenname right now is x2lostwithoutyou my name is Kati and im 13...
Pick something long lasting and that you won't be embarassed to tell people about ... mine is Clueless467 *blush* and I have a hard time explaning it to people even though it is completely meaningless. Try KatiGirl or LittleKati. Also try not to use to much slang in your name, fads change soooooo quickly. I hope some one gives you some great advice, mine is kinda bunk.
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