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Hey my name is Nicole...im 15 years old living in boring michigan...I've been through many problems in my life and now know how to deal with more things than most. all of my friends say i give great advice so just try me out and maybe you'll be satisfied!

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Well you see me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a month now and we weren't aloud to kiss. I finally found out I was aloud to kiss and I told him. He keeps talking about making-out next time I see him but I don't want to rush into things. I have a feeling its because his brother keeps telling him to kiss me and things like that and he wants to be like his brother and make-out with his girlfriend all the time. I don't know what to do, please write, I'll rate!

-Nerveous

if he cares he'll wait if you don't feel comfortable. making out isn't a bad thing...just try and don't do much MORE than than, ya know? i've had my boyfriend for almost two years now...and we didn't makeout until around 8 months after we started going out. he was really nice about it too, like he would ask me if i was ready yet every so often, but just to be sure...not to the point where it got annoying. if a boy cares about you, he'll wait for you, too. just know that and follow your heart with what YOU wanna do..not what others want you to do! good luck...n please rate me! ;D

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Hey....is there anything like around at the house that you can/could practice kissin on or any hints to become a better kisser?

if you're saying making out or kissing with tongue at all...you can try using a starburst...put it in your mouth WITH the wrapper...and try and take the wrapper off using nothing but your mouth. even if you don't get it doesn't mean you're a horrible kisser or anything...just as long as you try it give you a general idea. or if you cant get a hold of any starburst, get a regular cherry...in your mouth...take the stem off with your tongue, eat the cherry obviously so it doesn't get in the way..and try and make a knot with the cherry stem. hope i helped!! rate me please :D

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okaie...well i had a question on here b4..about this guy named Miguel..and well he called me 2dae..and was really nice!!..he sed he was gonna buy me a Tigger doll..(my fave!)..and its for a birthdae present..bkuz my b-dae was yesterdae..and well wen he called..he had asked me 2 go 2 6Flagz wit him and his sis this weekend...then my sis came home..wit my digital camera..can hes ugly!!..and he is supposed 2 call me back 2marroe..2 c if i can go 2 6flagz or not..ohh yeah!..his is a LIL PERSON..and i am kinda scared of them!!..please help me!!...my sis saes not 2 b mean and rude 2 him and it duznt hurt if i am just friends wit hi..but man! i dono wut 2 do...HELP ME KAIE?!

don't be so negative about it. that shows that you may not be such a good person at all. go with him. appearance is nothing and you have to know that. just go with him and have fun. you really are shallow if you're gonna base the kid on the way he looks.

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i like this guy...but i have a bf n everytime i talk to this dude i feel so guilty...im so confused on what to do..should i tell this guy to go away...or what? cuz i love mah bf so much yet this guy gives me the attention i need at times when my bf dont? PLZ HELP!

try and just be friends with the kid! you can still get the attention by hangingout with him, and you can still have your boyfriend, too.

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Be and my best friend are soo tight..we do EVERYTHING together. and whats even better is that our boyfriends are best friends too. The 4 of us do everything together! but now whenever im with my friend when her bf isn't around thats all she talks about is him even on the phone! it gets on my nerves soo bad! should i say somthing to her or just let her talk about him?

I know what you're feeling...believe me. just tell her. say something like "you know, sometimes it really bothers me that all you can talk about is so and so. can you please try and cut it down a little bit?" if you guys really are best friends, she'll understand and she'll stop. don't worry!

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i wanna give up on boys soooo bad ok im a beautiful girl who loves 2 have a great time and i have a nice body a pretty face and im sweet and i can get a guy but... i cant get a guy 2 fall in love w/ me duz that mean something is wrong w/ me i mean guy that have fallin in love w/ me they did after it was over between us its like they miss wut they had how can i get a boy 2 fall in love w/ me when im w/ them HELP ME... I RATE

you can't MAKE someone fall in love with you, it happens when you meet the right person. in time you'll find the right guy. in the meantime...just have fun dating around!

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