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Be and my best friend are soo tight..we do EVERYTHING together. and whats even better is that our boyfriends are best friends too. The 4 of us do everything together! but now whenever im with my friend when her bf isn't around thats all she talks about is him even on the phone! it gets on my nerves soo bad! should i say somthing to her or just let her talk about him?
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try changing the subject.. or like hint at it... be nice bout it tho!!
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I know what you're feeling...believe me. just tell her. say something like "you know, sometimes it really bothers me that all you can talk about is so and so. can you please try and cut it down a little bit?" if you guys really are best friends, she'll understand and she'll stop. don't worry!
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Well, I would say your friends a little bit obsessed there lol. Just talk about your boyfriend a lot and see how she reacts, or when she starts to talk about her boyfriend, change the subject. There are a lot of things you guys can talk about. Hope I helped! <3
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spread rumors about them.
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It’ll pass. I Promise. It is just a phase you guys are going through. She talks about him so much because he is a super big part of her life. She probably talks about you to him, even though it may not seem like it. Be careful that you aren’t jealous of her talking about him all the time because that can ruin a friendship by making her choose boyfriend or best friend. Just kinda wait it out soon you will find out it may not be as bad as it seems. When something bothers a person that is all they can focus on. Like your bother blaring the stereo when you are trying to sleep, even if he turns it down that is all you notice, but if you ignore it you will fall asleep sooner or later. Focus on the other stuff she talks about and steer your conversations away from him. I would not recommend asking her to stop constantly bringing him up because he may be offended or be willing to fight about him. This may seem dumb, but she will find something else new and exciting to talk about soon.
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yes you should tell her believe me, but she might get a lil upset at first but she'll get over it LoL
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change the subject. or start talking about your boyfriend. eventually, maybe she'll get the picture. good luck !! send me something if you need more help
xo Kristen
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You should talk to your friend about it. Once she knows that it's bothering you, hopefully she will stop. <3 Steph
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Just let her talk about him... then if she still does it u can change the subject. I think she'll get bored of talking about him sooner or later. Hope i helped!
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Hey i`d definately say something! You guys are tight..so im sure she`ll want to know if your bothered by it! I know i would want to know if i was her! Talk to her about it and explain how you feel..that you wanna spend time with her and just have girl time or w.e. lol. Im sure she`ll understand.
hope i helped out!
-melissa :)
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i would be as nice as i can about it..try to change the subject. and if that doesn't work then yeah i would prolly say something to her.
..drop one in my inbox if you need me
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