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help fast plz!
ok well i like this person and this person likes me too but befor we admitted it we where good friends and we still are..and if this person is gonna ask me out i wanna say yes but what if we brake up i dont whant us to loose our freindship...so should i say yes?what should i do?help!ill rate you for this!
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be calm,untense,and tell him what u think and want.
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u guys are definetly lucky ur friends. since ur so tight, when (and if) he asks you out, tell him yes, but then also say that you want to stay friends if you guys decide to break up, cuz I'm sure he does too!!!
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I think if you are already thinking about what might happen if you break up then you really shouldn’t get your self into it, you shouldn’t risk your friendship on something you are so unsure of. I am living proof that friends can date. I was friends with a guy for about a year and then we started going out. We have been dating for 5 years now. It is great we can never go back to exactly they way we were but this is a million time better. It is like having a friend, a best friend, and a boyfriend all wrapped up in one. If you can seriously see your self breaking up already then I would recommend just leave thing where they are because as much as you both say you could always go back to be just friends that is impossible. He will know you inside out and you will know him. If you are willing to risk it all then DO IT. I feel the best relationships start as friends you just have to get rid of that safe-zone of a friendship and leap into dating. It will be scary and your other friends really won’t make kit any easier at all but it you do it right it can be a blast.
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If he asks u out then ask him to promise u no matter what happens- you'll still always be frends. Then u can go out wit him.
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i am going through the same thing. but i made my guy promise that whatever happend that we would always be friends. and he said that nothing would ruin that. so thats what you should do. just make him promise you. i hope i helped....rate me
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i`d say go for it!!! but before yu actually say yes, yu should tell him that yu want to go out with him but once and if yu ever break up, yu can`t let it ruin yur friendship!! hope i helped
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If you like him you should say yes. I understand that you don't wanna damage your friendship with him. So when he asks you out, before you say yes, tell him you will go out with him but if/when we break up that you still wanna be friends. He'll understand and you'll be good to go! Good Luck! <3
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Well...a lot of people have this problem that's for sure. So did I a while back. You need to talk to your best friend about your feelings for eachother in a mature manner, ya know? Then, you both need to agree on if you do break up that both of you would not break the friendship as well. It wouldn't be worth it. If that person disagrees then of course you need to say no, but most likely he/she will agree and you can say yes and explore your good friends feelings on a different level. I hope I helped <3
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you should say yes but talk to he/she bout it and tell em if u break up u wanna be the best of friends u was before....tell em u dont want nothin to change...dont worry so much bout loosin ur friendship becuz most likely if u guys r close now as friends..if u break up u will still be close...good luck
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