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theres this guy and we hang out in school or we used to schools out for now... well ya his exgirlfriend keeps iming mii saying he likes me. and shes like do u like him and i paniced and said no cuz i thought that wuz the best thing. i dont like going far with boys. im 13. making out maybe. i only made out once n that was in 5th grade. lol. i ended up thinking it wuz nasty cuz all his saliva was in my mouth. lol. but i dk i think that wuz cuz it wuz my first time. well the reason i said no is his exgirlfriend use to always make out in the hall way and i kno im not gunna do that. the 5th grade make out session was in front of one person. lol. and i wuz nervous evem with just one. well i wouldnt be able to be better then that you know wut i mean. he already had better then me so... well i paniced and i said i didnt like him that way and the other day the exgirlfriend imd me a chat invitation i took it and the guy wuz there. i freaked out. lol. my heart was pounding really fast. well ya i think i sounded really stupid in the hole conversation. i dk but she copied and pasted sumthing like he wrote it and it said dont tell karen i like her and karen lol thats me. but then he wuz like i didnt say that. {{no affence karen}} so then w/e. i dk wut does all this mean?? im really confused. in my opionn i dont think he likes me.
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OK well if you guys decided to go out and he was a good boyfriend then he shouldnt make you do anything you dont wanna do and if he trys to get you to do stuff then break up with him because hes not worth it.
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Hun, If he likes you, he will respect your descions not to "Make out in the hallway". But what you need to do, is be honest with him and tell him you like him. Okay?
-Megan
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You should talk to this ex girlfreind and say you know I do like him and you can tell him for all I care its his loss...and if you dont want to make out in front of people thats prefectly fine. You dont have to go around lookin like you need to be kissed every five seconds...and if you cant talk to her then talk to him...ask him you know is that true that you like me or something. Just go with your instincts on this one.
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Maybe he really does like you and is too shy to tell you. If you really trust his ex g/f then you could just ask her if that was true what she copied and pasted. Then if she says yes, say, " I don't care if it was true or not but I like him." That way you sound like you dont care if he knows, so she won't do what she did to him. And if she does, just say I don't care if you know, I like you, if you don't like me, it's not a big deal. Good luck :)
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well, it sounds like you wouldnt be able to just im him or go up to him and talk to him about this whole thing. also, just like you said that you didnt like him to his ex gf, he also said that he didnt say something or that he didnt like you. he might be nervous about it too. unless you talk to him or get someone to ask him if he likes you, you will never know. If he does like you, just make sure he knows you dont wanna go too far and dont wanna make out in the hallway.
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Well maybe the Ex is just being mean and trying to get your hopes up. On the other hand, He could just be as nervous as you are. I say, tell him you like him. What could it hurt. If he doesn't like you back find a new guy... And if he does, then yall could date. As far as the making out thing, I agree... You don't need to take it too far too fast. Hope all goes well :) -Britty-
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Okay.. I really think that his ex is playing games... Are u n his ex really good friends? Or does she just randomly all of the sudden im you and tell you these things.. Did you always get the vibe from her that she didn't like you or something? He could like you.. guys are shy.. or his ex could be maybe getting back at him and telling girls that he likes them (if he dumped her) Or she could not like you for a reason.. or maybe she heard that you liked him from someone.. and shes trying to act like she wants you 2 together but really telling you one thing and him another.... some girls are really bitchy that way..And about the making out thing.. don't worry about it. I have never made out and im 14...and im in no rush to either. Its something that you should feel completely comfortable with and you should have a good time doing it .. and if he does like you and he knows that you aren't like that but he likes you anyway... then chances are he doesn't care about that stuff((those kind of guys are keepers ;)..)) And if he does try to make out with you in the hall every min. then just tell him no that your not like that... he should respect you.. and who says that hes had better.. maybe once you 2 kiss you'll be better to him...You never know.. And besides everyone kisses different.. so theres no exact way to be a bad kisser.. or compare peoples kissing..;).. so don't worry about it.. if he likes you.. he'll get around to telling you.. maybe hes just shy.. and if he doesn't then flirt away and get yourself another guy that can respect you and like who you are.. EVERYTHING about who you are... and about that ex.. im not "quite" sure what she has up ehr sleeve.. but i would watch out for her.. she doesn't sound to trustworthy..
-hope i helped-
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-Good luck.. if u need anything else... just ask ;)-
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