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ok recently i've been going out with my bestfriends brother. She doesnt' kno and if she did she would kick my ass! i don't kno wat to do. WE really like eathother. and she knows that he's all i think about! but she still doesn't get it.. im always feeling guilty! should i tell her or should i keep it a secret? i don't kno wat to do... i dont' wanna lose her as a friend and i don't wanna lose him as a bf. i dont' wanna be a bad friend but he really is all i thnk about and talk about she just doesn't understand.... but wen it comes to the same situations with her she doesn't care wat i think and she does her thing wiht them... if she can do it and doens't care wat i think then why can't she except wat i want??
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You should talk to her and tell her how you feel because if you dont then it will just make the problem alot worse...good luck...hope i helped.
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if u keep it a secret it will get worseescalate into a bigger problem
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if u have a friend that wants you to care about wat she thnks but doesnt care about watu think she's not worth being friends with .. what i mean is .. if u try and talk to her about it .. it seems lyk she wont understand or she might get mad or blow up in ur face .. she just wont care .. if u have a friend that doesnt care then shes not wroth ur blood swet or tears .. forget her and stay w. her brother
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Tell her that u like her brother..n that u want to be happy n u dont want her to be mad.. n that her brother makes u happy.. tell her xactly how u feel
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You and your bf need to sit down and have a chat with his sister/your friend. You have to tell her what is going on. If you don't you will continue to feel guilty. And if she finds out from someone else rather than the 2 of you she will be really pissed because she will feel betrayed, like you have been lying to her all this time. So just come clean with her. If she can't accept the fact that the 2 of you make eachother happy, then try to explain to her that its stupid for her to feel that way because it is not going to change your friendship. But if she can't understand then you are just gonna have to deal with it. And I'm sure her brother will not let her kick your ass, so don't worry about that. Hope I helped and Good Luck! :)
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hi, well i think u should def. talk to her n tell her how u feel...tell her that you care bout her brother so much..that all u think bout its him n everything...so tell her to understand you n put her self in ur position for a while....so she can understand you better..if she doesnt she is not such a "good friend" xoxo effy
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If I were in your situation, I would tell her. I've done that before and I always somehow felt guilty for it, but after I told my friend she wasn't mad at all. I totally stressed over nothing! She just told me that she didn't want it getting in between our friendship b/c I'm with her brother and it never did. We're still cool and she doesn't care that I'm with her brother :)
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TELL HER!If she finds out through him or some other source then she'll be even more pissed off...just tell her how you like him a lot and you can't change that...tell her that you love having her as as a bf and u dont want thatto change...GOOD LUCK!!write me if everything turns out good...i love to hear the turnouts...
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*~tasha~*
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