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Tonight i had sex for the second time.
We used a condom and i saw the sperm in the condom after we finished and there were no holes, then we did it again with a new condom but he didn't finish off because we didnt have enough time.My cherry popped this time but it barely bled at all and im just wondering , the chances of me being pregnant are really low right?
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Its a good chance that your not pregnant
considering you used protection and you didn't see a hole in the condom.
always use protection and get put on birth control
although neither are 100% useing both of them
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My love life has been a mess recently, and it's turned into me considering giving my ex a second chance. I'm 19, btw. He's 21.
Background: When we were together, emotions ran high and neither of us were really prepared for it. He's struggled with control, and dealing with emotions for most/all? of his teenage life, and he couldn't handle it, so he ended it.
Before he ended it, he was being kind of horrible to me. He unintentionally encouraged an eating disorder I'd been on the edge of for years, he added to my self-hatred, and when he broke up with me, threw me into depression.
On the other hand, before he freaked out about what he was feeling, he was one of the sweetest, most romantic guys I'd ever met, and he loved me. When I wound up depressed, he stayed with me and held me while I cried, if I did, and kissed my tears away. He never meant to hurt me.
We broke up last July, and we're still "involved". There are feelings on both ends and we both know it, but I had the option of being with someone else I developed some feelings for.
When I saw my ex, though, and he kissed me, I felt that he still loves me, and neither of us seem to want to let go of that. We were friends with benefits for awhile, then I stopped it, but now I want to start it again.
Neither of us are ready for a relationship again. I feel trapped and caged easily, and I don't want the "girlfriend" responsibilities.
What do you guys think? Should I go back to being FWB with him with the thought that it could turn back into a relationship? (link)
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To be honest I think that you should be done with this whole situation. You both need to move on with ya'lls lives. I think that there has already been to much damaged caused to both of you and that you will only dwell in the past.
good luck.
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As stated, I've gained ten pounds, and belly.
Binge eating and being lazy.
I've really come to terms with it though, and actauly kinda like my new soft squishy look.
But I was wondering, do guys mind it?
My friend says he won't date a girl unless she has a cushion, and he thinks that my belly is beautiful and taht I should gain even more weight.
But do guys normaly think like him?
Do they like a girl with a little extra weight?
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Most guys do not find that sort of thing attractive. And you should look healthy not to skinny and not to big. You wouldnt want to over eat and do something that would ruin your health.
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I recently had sex for the first time and I am a girl and 15 1/2 years old. After I had sex(for the first time) do I need tosee a doctor? Is it just for girls that are on the pill? I feel like I need to see a doctor, what do you think? (link)
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wow Im sorry it took me so long to answer this and you might already have the answer but you dont have to go to the doctor. Alot of girls do so that the can get tested for stds or have a paop. to get put on birthcontrol. But you dont have to.
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ok well my boy friend wants to do something today but i dont... what should i do PLEASE HELP (link)
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If you dont wanna do something you should tell him and he should undetstand because part of having a relationship is being able to say when you want to and when you dont without the other one fliping out. Good luck. I hope I helped.
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Ok, i used to talk to this guy david and we seemed to hit it off pretty well. but then he accused me of "having something" with his friend John. But it was total bull. So we stopped talking. then, a couple of weeks ago he called me after i texted his cell. we talked for about an hour and then he had to go. We have been talking since. He told me he still liked me because he knew/knows i still have feelings for him. we made plans to meet at a dance club and hang out. seems good right? wrong. his girlfriend showed up so i got ditched. he barely talked to me all night. i was devastated that he would do that to me. but we got over it. now we are talking again and he is calling me and continuing to make plans to hang out. But he still has a girlfriend. and i dont know what to do because i really do like this kid. please help. i rate high.
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I wanna say first that its wrong of him to not tell his girlfriend that he likes you. If he really likes you then you shouldnt do anything with him until he tells his girlfriend or breaks up with her so you dont get hurt. Talk to him and tell him how you feel about him having a girlfriend and saying he likes you. If he is really serious about you he will understand and do something about it. Good luck. I hope I helped.
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okay- so heres what I see.
I see all of thse girls, and some guys, asking about Sex. will I get pregnate this way, what about this.
and i always answer saying, you should wait, what if you get pregnate, and a whole bunch of stuff to think about like money parents will he leave you- just to name a few.
then the rest of the questions i see are either:
i think i am pregnat, we used a condom and it broke, i dont want to tell my parents, what should i do.
or
i got pregnat and my boyriend left me.
its so horrible!!
I dont believe in Sex before marrage or abortion!!
anyone follow me and agree with me on this??
anything else- leave on in my inbox!!
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I agree with you and if these people are asking questions it means they are not sure what they should do or if they did it why they did. They arent ready. the only people who are dont need to ask questions.
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What should I do if I get bullied a lot by kids at school? I go to a catholic school, too and its still happening. Junior High can definitly be tough. I get picked on by 7th graders and kids my age. What should I do? My parents and I have tried and tried but nothing has worked! I've gotten nasty emails and instant messengers, and rude and harassing phone calls. can you help me?
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Im sorry this is happnening to you. What I think you should do is stand up to them and make them believe your gonna be strong through whatever that say. I dont mean go fight them just dont allow them to bring you down and if they say something to you dont be scared to say something back. If you dont wanna do that go to a principal or teacher and tell them who it is and what they are doing. They should be able to help. Good luck. i hope i helped
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My(used to be)best friend meghan who now I don't like anymore is flirting with my other friend Alex (who I used to go out with but now he's a really big crush)and she knows I like him alot and if I talked to her about it she would just take it he wrong way like she did last time I tried and I don't know how to get her to stop cuz it really upsets me and I think she knows why I'm mad at her but she just i/ms me asking why I'm mad and pretends like she doesn't know and I think her and my friend Julie were talking about it and meghan asked her to ask me what was wrong and that made me mad too! And I don't wanna be meghan's friend for so many reasons but I just can't deal with her flirting with Alex then denying she likes him and saying she likes this other kid. What should I do? (link)
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Well I wanna start off by saying that Meghan isnt being a very good person if she knows you like him and she flirts with him and pretends she doesnt know. I think what you should do is talk to Alex.. you can call him or do it in person either way is good. When you are talking to him explain to him how you feel and how it is hurting you to see what Meghan is doing Im sure he will understand. After that he should tell you how he feels about it and things can get worked out that way. Good luck. I hope I helped
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I have a little issue see I get turned on by gurls. I basically grew up around guys and i always heard them sya damn look at that a.s.s. or she got a nice rack and I always ignored it like why do i want to hear this now when I ee a gurl i think the same excact thing i wonder what she looks like naked, what tricks she can do, just things that I would think about wit a guy. I have never done anything with a gurl and want to experiment but I am scared because i dont know how to approach a gurl to let her know. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!? And could you give me some hints on what to do when you are with a gurl do you do the same things you do with a guy and are there any special tricks?
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We all normally go through a stage like this and trust me I did. I will tell you what I did and hope it helps. When I first started looking at girls like that I thought it was weird and gross but soon I found out that we had some bi sexual girls at our school so I just started talking to them. One of them liked me and I could tell so I asked her if she wanted to experiment and she said yes so we did. So what I think you should do is look around for some bi sexual or lezbians at your school or maybe even a little older then you but not much and talk to them see how you feel around them and then if you get attracted to one tell her and see what she thinks. When I was with that girl I acted just as I did when I liked a guy. So good luck. I hope I helped
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Every afternoon in school for about 2 weeks I get really bad stomach Aches. I have no idea why. If i go home and go to sleep for like even a half hour they get better. Is there like a reason for this or somthing. (link)
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Im not to sure because you didnt say if you ate before the stomach aches or what but if they continue I advice you to go see your doctor to find out why it is hurting. Good luck. I hope i helped
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ok my friend called me up and told me theres this party like right up the road from me!! it starts at like 8..but im not going to ask my mom if i can go..cuz how would i word it? if you have a good idea on how to word it ..thats an automatic 5 for you guys. I was thinkin..if not to just sneak out later on. (my dad works the night shift and my mom is usually asleep by 10:30)
What would you guys do? I've never really been to a wild party..usually i jus go to small parties or sweet 16's ..that stuff. My parents would want to know if someone is home..and who knows if they would actually want to talk to the parents being that the party is right up the road from me. (link)
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Well I dont think you should sneak out because I have done that before for the same thing and I got into so much trouble when i got home plus my parents lost trust in me and you dont wanna lose that. I think you should just tell her that you and your friend wanna go to a party with some kids from school. When she ask you talk to a parent or if someone is gonna be there tell her the truth because if she finds out you lied its gonna be more trouble. I dont mean to tell her they are breaking in or anything just say your not sure and that you will be home at a decent time. I advise you not to lie whatever you do. Good luck. I hope I helped
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Hi im 13 female and i wanted to know if any one my age knows how i can earn $3000 dollars (three thousand dollars) i live in florida close to mims i need to earn money but dont know how.. i want to earn money for a horse and my grandpa said that if i get $3000 than i can get one. so i need help i rate 5's thanks
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Well its prolly gonna take a long time to get all of the money but I know a few ways you can.
Go around and find someone with kids and see if they need a babysitter most of the time peoples parents pay well.Also you could mow grass and change 10 or 15 dollars a yard depending on the size of it. Another way is maybe you could talk your parents into paying you for doing stuff in the house like cleaning and things such as that.
Good Luck. I hope I helped
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ok im really hungry and im home alone. there really isnt alot of food in the house but we have tostito corn chips and i wanna make some kind of dip with them. if you have any easy dip recipes for tostitos with stuff that can be easily found in the house please give me one!! i have alot of mexican shredded cheese but thats really not enough to make a good dip. i have some more stuff on hand..just any dip recipe for tortillas would work. thanks! (link)
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Well im not sure if you have the mix to make this but maybe .. You can make French onion dip buy getting one or two little packs of it. They come in little bags that look like gravy mix. When you get them in a bowl stir in sourcream and put it in the refrigerator. Its really good. I hope I helped
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Okay, well I have been talking to this guy for over a year. We get together almost every weekend. We tell each other everything. Here's the problem ..lol I like him ALOT and he knows it. He tells me he loves me and we talk on the phone everday we can't see each other. (he lives in a diff. city like 30 min. away) He tells his friends he likes me. But then again we fight a lot. But they never last long and we are cool again within a few min.(the fighting has stopped now unless we are joking around)He has turned down other girls because we are *talking*. But he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend yet. Do you think he will or am I wasting my time?
p.s.-a week ago he told someone he was thinking about asking me out...but a week has gone by and he hasnt but we still talk ALL the time? What do you think is going to happen? What do you think he is thinking?
I am 14
He is 14 (link)
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Well it seems to me as if yall both have feelings for each other like you said so chances are he is going to ask you. If you dont wanna wait just be open with him and tell him you really like him and you want to be with him and maybe he will ask then. Also if you dont think he is gonna ask you and you know that he likes you dont be scared to ask him. Good luck. hope i helped
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A little while ago I made myself throw up cause I didnt like the way I looked.I promised my friends I would stop so I am,but my so called best friend wrote on her xanga that im bellimic and that everyone says I was just doing it for attention and for those who dont know wat an xanga is its like a website u can write things on and EVERY1 reads it cause alotta my friends have them and I didnt want any1 to know.Now I know that was wrong of her to post that on her xanga but I got really mad at her and I wont talk to her and we were just fighting last nite and we were cursing eachother off and I called her a backstabber.Do you think it was right for me to get mad at her? Do you think I should just let it go and apologize? I kno this gurl wont apologize to me cause thats how she is,but i dont know wat to do cuz I dont really wanna lose her as a friend but shes just really gotten on my nerves lately and she hasnt been a good friend to me.Thanks for reading this! (link)
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I have been in a problem just like this and trust me I know its not easy. What she did was really wrong and if you feel that you still wanna be friends with her then I guss you should talk to her. Get her at your house and just sit her down and tell her that if hurt you when she did that and she doesnt need to go telling everyone your business because she is souposed to be your bestfriend someone you can turn to when your hurting and it sounds as if she isnt being that. I dont think you should apologize because you did nothing wrong she did it. Good luck. I hope i helped
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ok theres this guy i like. hes a friend of mine but i want to be more than friends. he likes another girl. the other girl didnt like him at first but when she found out he likes her she miraculously started liking him. i feel like the only reason she likes him is because she is desperate and wants to go out with someone, so since he likes her, she likes him. i like him too and i want to tell him how i feel but he really likes her. i dont want to break his heart and the other girl is my friend too. so i dont know what to do. i feel like shes using him but i dont want to ruin my relationship with either of them. what do i do? (link)
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I dont really know how to answer this question without thinking maybe someone will get hurt along the way so I am going to try to. I think that if you and this guy are really close you should talk to him and tell him what you think because he should respect your thoughts.While talking to him let him know that your not trying to break him and his girlfriend up you just wanted to share your feelings. As for the girl if you are friends with her talk to her and maybe she will tell if she really likes him or not. Good luck and I hope I helped
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My bf and i (together 2 years) took a break and during the break i had interest in another guy who just came out of a 2 year relationship. Well my parents found out, w/out knowing about the breakup of me and my bf, and stepped in right away telling the other guy to stay away from me. After about a 3 hour talk with my parents they apologized to guy yet still say they dont want me with him, want me to quit my job, cuz thats where i met him (although he only works weekends, and since of late he has quit), and they tell me that there is something about him they dont trust even though they've only seen him once! They also think i am rushing too quickly into a new relationship and that i am not ready when in reality they arent ready! I am still friends with my ex who is tryiin to do everything and anything to get us back together and the other guy and i have agreed to be friends and cool things down until everything is settled! I just dont know what to do! Should i just go back with my ex or try working things out with this new guy?
if You would like to know the WHOLE story then just email me and ill email you...
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this sounds like a messy situation. The best thing I can tell you is to not get with either one of them right away. I think you should stay friends with your ex so yall dont lose what yall had and at the same time get to know the other guy somemore. You should try letting your parents sit down and talk to the new guy so they can have more trust in him. I do agree that you shouldnt rush into a relationship with him until you know its really what you want to do. Good luck and I hope I helped
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In high school, we get to choose which language we want to take- French or Spanish. I signed up for Spanish, but I'm having second thoughts. I like French a lot more, but I want to do what's best for me. Does anyone have any pros or cons for taking a certain language, or just general advice on what I should do? Thanks! (link)
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I think thay you should stay with Spanish becaue alot of times when you go to apply for a job they accept you if you can speak both Spanish and English. I hope you make the right choice. and Good Luck
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i have a guy friend that i like for a while and i still do like him and he likes me one problem is that he gots a gf and we close and he always tells me that he loves me and we can talk for hours and not worry about who knows we talking but my question is is it a bad thing that he has more feeling for me and not his gf? plz help! (link)
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I dont think that its bad that he likes you more because its not really something he can control. I think that if he wants things to not get really messed up he should tell his girlfriend so she doesnt get hurt. I wish yall the best. Hope I helped
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