As stated, I've gained ten pounds, and belly.
Binge eating and being lazy.
I've really come to terms with it though, and actauly kinda like my new soft squishy look.
But I was wondering, do guys mind it?
My friend says he won't date a girl unless she has a cushion, and he thinks that my belly is beautiful and taht I should gain even more weight.
But do guys normaly think like him?
Do they like a girl with a little extra weight?
SexyHal answered Friday April 20 2007, 3:37 pm: Most guys do not find that sort of thing attractive. And you should look healthy not to skinny and not to big. You wouldnt want to over eat and do something that would ruin your health. [ SexyHal's advice column | Ask SexyHal A Question ]
orphans answered Friday April 20 2007, 3:17 pm: Do you think guys will find "binge eating and being lazy" attractive? No. No. No. In the last week, 3 guys have told me I was skinny and I had a flat stomach. I said "Is that a good thing?" And all of them said yes. Typically, guys like flat stomachs. What's so good about fat? Nothing. Expect it's proof of laziness. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
sizzlinmandolin answered Friday April 20 2007, 2:36 pm: Honestly, most guys won't find that attractive at all. Sure there are some that prefer a little extra padding, but the majority of people like someone that is healthy and fit. Being healthy and fit is not just a physical committment, but a mental committment too. So, it defines who you are emotionally in a sense. Someone that takes care of their body is someone with a lot of strength, character, and confidence. This type of self-worth and striving to be at your best is very attractive. I'm not saying that larger people can't feel confident about themselves, but come on. It's not something that you should strive to be. You say that you have been binge eating. I doubt that you really know what that means. Here's an example. It's towards the bottom of the page. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location). My guess is that you've just been pigging out. There's a big difference from pigging out and binge eating. Don't say that you're binge eating unless you are. Although pigging out isn't that healthy, it's not nearly as severe as binge eating. You'll give people the wrong impression if you use the word "binge" if that's not what's actually going on. My advice for you is to start taking care of yourself a little better. It's just starting to warm up outside. Get out and exercise a little. I think that you'll find that guys will be much more into you if you do. Good luck! :) [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
ammo answered Friday April 20 2007, 2:31 pm: Hiya. :]
Well, let me start off by saying you look awesome! :D Belly and all. :P
Every guy is different - some like one thing and others like another. Some like their girls with big... chests. Others (like myself) couldn't care less either way... not like I'll be sitting around talking to a girls chest really. :/ Some like their girls tall and others short etc, etc, etc. The list can go on and on. Some guys do think like your friend but not all - guys can be very picky.
I personally thought you look great from your pictures and I don't generally mind how a girl looks because all that matters in the end is personality. :] Just concentrate on the ones who accept you for who you are and ignore the ones who can't. The ones who won't accept you for you are usually the ones you can do without. :] [ ammo's advice column | Ask ammo A Question ]
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