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ok theres this guy i like. hes a friend of mine but i want to be more than friends. he likes another girl. the other girl didnt like him at first but when she found out he likes her she miraculously started liking him. i feel like the only reason she likes him is because she is desperate and wants to go out with someone, so since he likes her, she likes him. i like him too and i want to tell him how i feel but he really likes her. i dont want to break his heart and the other girl is my friend too. so i dont know what to do. i feel like shes using him but i dont want to ruin my relationship with either of them. what do i do?
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that's happening to me right now too. i haven't found the answer yet, but i just left it be. i mean if he likes you too he'd ask you out wouldn't he? you don't want a one-sided relationship do you? cuz if you just liked him and he doesn't like you then it just isn't worth it.
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I think you should just stay out of it all together and just let it play itself out.
If you go to him with it he may just think you're trying to ruin it for him with the girl he likes. Then you'd ruin anything that you could have with him in the future.
If she's just using him he will figure it out sooner or later. Better to be the one to pick up the pieces for him later than be the one to break them up. Even if he doesn't think that's what you're trying to do......he will probably blame you. So just wait, and when they break up make your move.
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I dont really know how to answer this question without thinking maybe someone will get hurt along the way so I am going to try to. I think that if you and this guy are really close you should talk to him and tell him what you think because he should respect your thoughts.While talking to him let him know that your not trying to break him and his girlfriend up you just wanted to share your feelings. As for the girl if you are friends with her talk to her and maybe she will tell if she really likes him or not. Good luck and I hope I helped
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