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*Am I right for getting mad?*
A little while ago I made myself throw up cause I didnt like the way I looked.I promised my friends I would stop so I am,but my so called best friend wrote on her xanga that im bellimic and that everyone says I was just doing it for attention and for those who dont know wat an xanga is its like a website u can write things on and EVERY1 reads it cause alotta my friends have them and I didnt want any1 to know.Now I know that was wrong of her to post that on her xanga but I got really mad at her and I wont talk to her and we were just fighting last nite and we were cursing eachother off and I called her a backstabber.Do you think it was right for me to get mad at her? Do you think I should just let it go and apologize? I kno this gurl wont apologize to me cause thats how she is,but i dont know wat to do cuz I dont really wanna lose her as a friend but shes just really gotten on my nerves lately and she hasnt been a good friend to me.Thanks for reading this!<3
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Ofcourse you should be mad you shouldnt feel quitly about her wrong doing, that was really rude of her and shes not worth making up with since shes a backstabber, but seriously you shouldnt throw up...if this girl was a good friend she would of talked to you about this not post it on the internet!! *hope i helped* ~becky :)
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Listen, I used to have friends like that... you don't need them. Trust me, this is SUCH a long story. In the end, it's just NOT worth it. Trust me. It wasn't right for her to do that.
And while other people in 3rd world countries are starving, you're throwing up your damn food. Don't do that. Don't worry about what others think, make yourself happy. You should get help.
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you have every right to be mad. she shouldnt go around telling people your personal business. yeah you shouldnt of been throwing up, but she shouldnt bee giving out information about YOU! dont apologize, and tell her why it was wrong. and if she cant get that thru her head then shes an idiot.
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shes not a good friend period if i were u i would of beatin her already with a fuckin bat or some shit
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You had every right to be mad. It wasn't her place to tell people your bussiness.Forget her, she's not worth your time. Anyone who is going to talk behind your back isn't a real friend.
xO LiSA*
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Do you think it was right for me to get mad at her? yess i do! that SO wasnt right. not at all. you are going threw hard times. you dont need the whole world knowing!!!
Do you think I should just let it go and apologize? you apologize.. no! she needs to. i wouldn't let it go.. not now at least. make sure she is truely sorry
I kno this gurl wont apologize then she will think.. okay i can just do w.e i want.. and you dont want her taking over your life..
just sit her down and talk to her and tell her what is bothering you. .and ask her why she did that.. and why did she say it was for attention. cuz when your bellimic.. you dont do it for attention. you do it cuz you are not happy about your self
hope i helped
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i would be mad too.. shes supposed to be your best friend right.. and she didnt have to put it on her xanga where everyone at school can read about it. It would of been better if she told an adult like yours or her parents, that way you can get help instead of being embarrassed or anything, although you might still be embarrassed at least its a smaller amount of people and the ones that care about you Thats waht i think. And if you want to apologise to her just tell her your sorry but it really hurt you that she did that. or something along those lines. hope everything works out
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Well ifyou knew of a friend that was going to kill herself and was serious about it. wouldn't you tell someone....even if she would be mad at you.
Instead of throwing up, try getting more exercise to burn calories and be careful what you eat. This is a no brainer. You know junk food is just that junk food. ALL HUMANS have to control what they eat or they get fat. End of story.
Do you know that lady that died this week. She was all over the TV Terri Shiavo. Well that is how she ended up in as a vegetable. She was also bulemic. She threw up. She messed up her potasium levels and had a heart attack in her thirties. She lived for 14 years like a vegetable. Maybe your friend doesn't want to see that happen toyou. but of course if she is just gossipping about you, and is not really concerned about your health, then yes you have a right to be mad
Michele
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I have been in a problem just like this and trust me I know its not easy. What she did was really wrong and if you feel that you still wanna be friends with her then I guss you should talk to her. Get her at your house and just sit her down and tell her that if hurt you when she did that and she doesnt need to go telling everyone your business because she is souposed to be your bestfriend someone you can turn to when your hurting and it sounds as if she isnt being that. I dont think you should apologize because you did nothing wrong she did it. Good luck. I hope i helped
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Well i am sure she wasnt doing it to be mean or to embarass you! So i think you should juss apologize to her since she wont apologize to you!
cody
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Well, it depends. Do you feel she is worth staying friends with? If you asked me, it was very wrong of her to do that, and you have every right to be mad. If you decide you want toremain friends with her you can apologize. But I wouldn't trust her right away. "It takes years to gain trust, and seconds to throw it away". If anything you should gain trust in her little by little. I would tell her how upset she made you though. You said you were trying to stop. It's not easy to stop, I know. I would recommend going to a doctor though. You could be bullimic. And if that's the case, it's not good. It eventually will ruin your esophogus and other insides of your body.
Hope I helped!
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