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Confused
Okay, well I have been talking to this guy for over a year. We get together almost every weekend. We tell each other everything. Here's the problem ..lol I like him ALOT and he knows it. He tells me he loves me and we talk on the phone everday we can't see each other. (he lives in a diff. city like 30 min. away) He tells his friends he likes me. But then again we fight a lot. But they never last long and we are cool again within a few min.(the fighting has stopped now unless we are joking around)He has turned down other girls because we are *talking*. But he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend yet. Do you think he will or am I wasting my time?
p.s.-a week ago he told someone he was thinking about asking me out...but a week has gone by and he hasnt but we still talk ALL the time? What do you think is going to happen? What do you think he is thinking?
I am 14
He is 14
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the only thing to do is ask him out. HE WILL DEFINITELY SAY YES! I am positive. Dont be afraid to do it because in the end you will be so happy! You are definitely not wasting ur time!
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your 14, I think you should give it time, if he's not sure then maybe it's not worth it but you should wait definately. Be patient! It's hard but maybe you should start dropping more advanced hits toward him? He may get the more motive to ask you.
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well maybe because you are so close he is scared that you will change you mind and reject him or it wont work out and will ruin what you have. and anyway who said he has to make the first move? you obviously want this as much as he does so just go for it. show that you trust him by putting yourself on the line. he will probably be relieved that he didnt have to do it because boys can be as scared as we are and its hard for them because girls just presume they will make the first move. so go for it and suprise him
Good luck!
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yeah well hay if you have been knowing him 4 a year and have been talkin to yew 4 a year and you really no each other good then give him some time to ask you if he doesnt ask you out like in a month dont waste your time yew can still talk to him and everything but don't get your hopes up 4 him asking yew out.
p.s if he does ask you out dont worry bout the differnt citys and living 30 minutes away you can still talk to him and see him every now and then.
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Ask him out yourself hun! lol if your to shy then just ask him"are you gonna ask me out"
Hope it works
XOXO Katie XOXO
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i would continue to wait, and think of things to talk about that can kinda "set the stage" for him asking you out. being a guy, who already has a girl, im still kinda plotting my first kiss because i want it to be the perfect moment... thats also how i was for asking her out (it was on her front doorstep at night, when we dropped her off) so just think of topics that you can almost clue him that your ready...
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All you can do is just keep talking and hope for the best.Wish I could read his mind for ya but I can't!
I'm sure he will get around to it eventually.He has to work up the nerve to do it same as you would.Believe it or not guy's are human too....though they would like you to think otherwise sometimes.:)
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Well it seems to me as if yall both have feelings for each other like you said so chances are he is going to ask you. If you dont wanna wait just be open with him and tell him you really like him and you want to be with him and maybe he will ask then. Also if you dont think he is gonna ask you and you know that he likes you dont be scared to ask him. Good luck. hope i helped
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