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Okay, well I have been talking to this guy for over a year. We get together almost every weekend. We tell each other everything. Here's the problem ..lol I like him ALOT and he knows it. He tells me he loves me and we talk on the phone everday we can't see each other. (he lives in a diff. city like 30 min. away) He tells his friends he likes me. But then again we fight a lot. But they never last long and we are cool again within a few min.(the fighting has stopped now unless we are joking around)He has turned down other girls because we are *talking*. But he hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend yet. Do you think he will or am I wasting my time?

p.s.-a week ago he told someone he was thinking about asking me out...but a week has gone by and he hasnt but we still talk ALL the time? What do you think is going to happen? What do you think he is thinking?
I am 14
He is 14

Ask him out yourself hun! lol if your to shy then just ask him"are you gonna ask me out"
Hope it works
XOXO Katie XOXO

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My(used to be)best friend meghan who now I don't like anymore is flirting with my other friend Alex (who I used to go out with but now he's a really big crush)and she knows I like him alot and if I talked to her about it she would just take it he wrong way like she did last time I tried and I don't know how to get her to stop cuz it really upsets me and I think she knows why I'm mad at her but she just i/ms me asking why I'm mad and pretends like she doesn't know and I think her and my friend Julie were talking about it and meghan asked her to ask me what was wrong and that made me mad too! And I don't wanna be meghan's friend for so many reasons but I just can't deal with her flirting with Alex then denying she likes him and saying she likes this other kid. What should I do?

You need to sit your friend down and be like "Meg, you know i like Alex so why do you flirt w/him?" but dont be all mean about it. Just talk to her about it and if she gets mad or anything like that then she apparently wasnt a really good friend anyways. You also need to know that you cant stop her from liking this kid. If she tells you she really likes him too then you should just both give up on the guy. I know that sounds hard but its the only way. If Alex gets a big crush on one of you then you shouldn't get upset if he does/doesnt pick you. You shouldnt lose a friend over a guy, but if she does stuff like this all the time then cut her loose
Hope that helps
Luv ya hun,
XOXO Katie XOXO

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Anyone know of a cute, not that expensive place to get knee socks [sort of a Harajuka Girl style]. Nothing crazy in the colors lol! Thanks!

you can go just about anywhere hun! I got like 3 pairs of blak socks at target for about 5 bucks! You can go to walmart,target,any department stores, etc. they're easy to find.
Hope I helped
MuCh LoVe,
XOXO Katie XOXO

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Ok I'm 15/f and I had a little peach fuzz..but it was like dark..so starting 7th grade, I shaved it and I liked the results...except for the fact that it grows back a LITTLE thicker and faster...Well the problem is, I'm going on vacation overseas and I need to bring a razor to shave it..except that my parents don't know I do that..I need to shave it or it will grow back gross! Please don't tell me to wax it or buy a kit from a store..and please don't tell me to have a talk with my mom...I don't know what to do!!

Just buy one wherever your going! They dont usually let you bring razors on planes so just tell your mom you have to have it to shave ur legs or something.

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I have a large and painful canker sore in my mouth that won't seem to go away. I've tried salt water and o-zone water (water that has anti-bacterial purposes). Are there any other remedies that'll help that I don't need to go and buy stuff for?

My neighbor gets canker sores really bad too and here's what you do:
1. DO NOT share anything with anyone(chapstik,drinks,etc)
2. Go out and invest in a little round tub of carmex or any other lip balm for cold sores.
3. You might even want to call your doc and ask for a little advice on whats best but make sure you always have the lip stuff on.
4. stay away from kissing anyone
EXTRA TIP: you know when you brush your teeth in the morning, make sure you brush your lips with your toothbrush (NOT WHEN YOU HAVE A COLD SORE)and afterwards put on some chap stick (carmex works REALLLY well and you can find it in tubes, round tubs, and squeezy tubes.) Hope I helped!
Much Love,
Katie

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