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Hi...Im becky, and well i like to give advice so i hope it helps u. :)
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I have a boyfriend but it is extremely hard to spend time with him since I am so busy in the summer, and have to spend time with family. I feel like we are growing apart from each other. Should I break up with him, or stay together? (link)
stay together...summer is almost over!


A little while ago I made myself throw up cause I didnt like the way I looked.I promised my friends I would stop so I am,but my so called best friend wrote on her xanga that im bellimic and that everyone says I was just doing it for attention and for those who dont know wat an xanga is its like a website u can write things on and EVERY1 reads it cause alotta my friends have them and I didnt want any1 to know.Now I know that was wrong of her to post that on her xanga but I got really mad at her and I wont talk to her and we were just fighting last nite and we were cursing eachother off and I called her a backstabber.Do you think it was right for me to get mad at her? Do you think I should just let it go and apologize? I kno this gurl wont apologize to me cause thats how she is,but i dont know wat to do cuz I dont really wanna lose her as a friend but shes just really gotten on my nerves lately and she hasnt been a good friend to me.Thanks for reading this! (link)
Ofcourse you should be mad you shouldnt feel quitly about her wrong doing, that was really rude of her and shes not worth making up with since shes a backstabber, but seriously you shouldnt throw up...if this girl was a good friend she would of talked to you about this not post it on the internet!! *hope i helped* ~becky :)


I have this friend and lately her parents divorced. At first she wouldn't tell me but then she did and she started crying. I feel really bad for her, how can i make her feel better? She keeps on saying that people will think that she is a divorced child.. But she really isn't. Shes so nice. (link)
Be a good friend to her and just make her feel better by saying its ok and tell her not to care what people say or think...i have alot of friends who suffered from parents getting divorced and i was there 4 them and they r ok now so hope it works out well like it did 4 me :) --becky


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i have a friend, and anytime we are hanging out alone or with other GIRL friends..shes normal and acts herself. but whenever we're hanging out with guys..she acts like a complete idiot, saying stupid things, acting stupid...just making herself out to be the stupidest girl ever!! and shes not stupid at all. after a party last night me and another friend told her and she was just like "you guys do it too and i don't care what people think" we do act dumb sometimes but we never take it a far as she does and after seeing her act so stupid- we will never do it again. she does it to get attention from guys and she gets it but its totally negative attention. its funny for a while, but then it gets annoying and everyone knos shes putting on an act. how do we get her to realize what shes doing is annoying and looking bad on herself? (link)
You and her friend should show an example of her meaning you act like her and your friend is a guy...and then act how she would normally act when shes with a guy so she could realize what an idiot she is...:) hope i helped and good luck.


My roots get greasy really fast, like within 5-6 hours after I take a shower. Is there any way I can keep my hair cleaner for longer without taking 2 showers daily? Is there a shampoo that prevents your hair roots from being greasy? I rate. (link)
Pantene full and thick


OK so there's thig guy I like. I've liked him for like3 or 4 years. Now he met this girl whos like completley gorgeous and they make out and stuff like all the time. I think he might like her. I think he knows I like him, but what do I do? (link)
Making out with someone and not even liking her would be just weird so he probaly does...but talk to him if hes worth it.


i'm trying not to make this long but I was BEST FRIENDS with this girl Jen until she moved to this really rich neighborhood and got a big head. She started rubbing things in my face, ditching me, and still expected me to be there for her... which i was. I don't know why I was but EVERYONE was. Then one day we all stopped because she got out of control (trying to keep it short). Everyone stopped giving her attention except one person who became her new best friend. I miss the old jen and now that she has a new best friend they are twice as evil. Jen invited me to her b day party and she's been IMing me and acting like her old self so i'm really tempted to go but i don't want to regret anything. we're going to different high schools next year anyways so i don't know if i should end the friendship now or what PLEASE HELP

sorry it was long.. trust me i couldve written 3 whole pages about the situation! (link)
Look, talk to her without her new best friend. Just you and her, and tell her how you feel and how different she is and if she doesnt care or doesnt even try to change for you then go look for another friend and forget about jen because youre not even going to the same school i mean just find a new friend and itll be alright. :)




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