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wheres my best friend?!!
i'm trying not to make this long but I was BEST FRIENDS with this girl Jen until she moved to this really rich neighborhood and got a big head. She started rubbing things in my face, ditching me, and still expected me to be there for her... which i was. I don't know why I was but EVERYONE was. Then one day we all stopped because she got out of control (trying to keep it short). Everyone stopped giving her attention except one person who became her new best friend. I miss the old jen and now that she has a new best friend they are twice as evil. Jen invited me to her b day party and she's been IMing me and acting like her old self so i'm really tempted to go but i don't want to regret anything. we're going to different high schools next year anyways so i don't know if i should end the friendship now or what PLEASE HELP
sorry it was long.. trust me i couldve written 3 whole pages about the situation!
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Tell her how you feel and how you liked the 'old' Jen better. If she values your friendship, she'll go back to normal so you can get back to your friendship. If she insists on being the same way, I would find a new friend and forget about her.
♥ Brooke
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I have been in the type of sitiution. I gave my old friend a chance and told her how i felt. Surprisingley, she agreed and said she didn't like the way she was acting either. It just she was desprate to have some friends. I would give her another shot and if it doesn't work out it doesn't work out
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Look, talk to her without her new best friend. Just you and her, and tell her how you feel and how different she is and if she doesnt care or doesnt even try to change for you then go look for another friend and forget about jen because youre not even going to the same school i mean just find a new friend and itll be alright. :)
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If she was really a true friend, she wouldn't make you follow her around. And expect you u to always be there for her. YOu might not want me to say this, or if you aren't this way, but God has a plan for you in life, and he also gives you free choice. And if you are really doubting bein her friend. That could just be a sign of maybe God wants you to find a different friend, that counts on your needs also not there own.Cuz it seems like your are just having her walk all over you. I am sometimes like that too.Just remember you control what happens in your life, she doesn't control you.But if you want to stay friends with her. You are just gonna have to understand that you guys aren't gunna be buddy buddy anymore. It sucks i kno, i had to go thru it too. Just find someone that has to go thru the same things as you and you kno you will always get along with each other. That always works the best. I HOPE I HELPED!!!!Please rate me!
Thanx, sarah
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Tell your friend how you feel tell her that ever since she moved she's been acting different and if she argues with you end the friendship don't worry one day she'll call maybe and say i'm sorry i shouldn't be acting like this because she'll remember the good days ya'll had.
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Woah.. been there lol. What you need to do is you need to talk to her and tell her thatshe was being a bitch when she moved to a nicer neighborhood. Tell her that it hurt you a lot when she ditched you and acted al snobby. You need to tell her exactly how you feel or else things wont get any better. I suggest you do this before her party so you guys can be friends during her party lol. You should also *if you feel this way* tell her that you miss hanging out with her and that you miss the old Jen. Hope I helped and please rate! xO'ali
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The best thing to do would be to sit down with Jen before the party and tell her that while you're happy she's got her new life going great, you miss the old Jen. If she asks, calmly and tactfully tell her exactly how she's changed.
If she truly values your friendship, she'll let her head go back to normal so you can get back to your friendship. If she insists on being the same way, I would find a new friend.
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Since you were best friends at one time I think you need to have a talk with her about the way shes been acting (if you haven't already). You need to explain to her that you don't like the way she has been treating you and if she doesn't change then you will no longer be her friend. Then the ball is in her court. She will either change her ways (may take a while to COMPLETLEY change back) or she won't. If she doesn't then end the relationship until she does. :)
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