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Summer Boyfriend?
I have a boyfriend but it is extremely hard to spend time with him since I am so busy in the summer, and have to spend time with family. I feel like we are growing apart from each other. Should I break up with him, or stay together?
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Just talk to him and tell him your summers been really busy and your sorry you haven't really got to spend time with him. But once school starts again you'll probably have more free time. hope i helped. ♥
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You should callhim on the phone a nd talk to him about it to seee what he thinks also. Because he might be thinking the sam excat thing!
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stay together...summer is almost over!
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Obviously he doesn't mean enough to you for you to try to keep the relationship together by perhaps inviting him to these family filled events.....so just break up with him. <3Beth
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Have a talk with him and see how he feels. Ask if he feels like you're growing apart, and see what he has to say about it. Tell him that you really care about him, but you feel as if you're growing apart because of your other priorities. Let him know that he IS high on your list though. Ask him if he's okay with you guys not spending a bunch of time together (at least for the time being) or if you should make more of an effort to hang out with him. Maybe he'll want to break up. Maybe you'll decide that that's what's best. But whatever happens, try to keep it civil and friendly.
♥ Hope I helped.
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stay with him. things will get better after the summer ends. most couples dont see eachother through the summer, so i know exactly how you feel.
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If you love himthen you should stay with him and just find a date where you guys can get together and just spend the whole day together until school starts
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if you really love him, and care about him, you should stay together. talk to him about this and ask him if he feels the same way you do. make sure you guys talk a few times a week, and try to spend time w/ him whenever possible. if you're worrying about this, it sounds like you really DO care about him, so don't break up w/ him just yet. if, when school starts again, you still feel distant from him, maybe it's time to end the relationship or take a break. GO0D LUCK!!! ♥
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i no how you feel i have a boyfriend to and i can like never see him.. But just wait a little longer and see how things are going then talk to him and see what he thinks. Sammy =)
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Ok, i know how you feel, i have a boyfriend too and sometimes its hard to see him, i see him only once a week or every 2 weeks. But if you love him then theres no way that you should break up with him. If you guys have been going out for a while and you have strong feelings for eachother, then there shouldnt be a reason for you to break up with him! Like i say as long as you are together with the person you love, then it doesnt matter how many times you see him...good luck, hope you make the right decision!
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usually what i do is breakup for the summer because you never know if hes lying to you because you dont see him as much. and he could be hooking up with someone on vacation. it really depends on your relationship though. if you havent been goin out for a long time, and you guys arent that serious, i would break up with him and give yourself a break and try to look for some new guys for the school year. but if you guys have been goin out for awhile, and you guys just feel like you dont have much time to see eachother, i would wait it out because if you guys go to the same school, everything will start rolling again and you'll have time to see eachother. trust your heart, if you feel like its not goin anywhere, just break up and be free. hope it works out!<3
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STAY WITH HIM A LITTLE LONGER ! THEN IF YOU GUYS DRIFT APART EVEN MORE..THEN DUMP HIM =/ XOXO G00D LUCk!!
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I think you should stay tog3thEr b3causE during summEr tim3 nobody r3ally s3Es alot of anybody so dont worry about it summEr is almost ovEr with so you will start to s3E 3vErybody mor3 again. so i hop3 i h3lpEd. ~DONNA~
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Try to make things work out. If it just doesn't work out yes dump him then!!!
*-*Pam*-*
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I think you guys should stay together. Most people are busy with their families during the summer, and I'm sure he'll understand. If he really loves you, he will respect that. Besides, you don't have to be with him 24/7. Still keep in touch with him, and any free time you have, you can spend with him. I'm sure he also has things going on at home with his family too. Then when school starts back up, you will be seeing each other every day at school. So don't worry about it.
--Johanna
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